Anyone else seem to have these problems...

[maosrdbf]

1. Usually, when I go to places where girls might show up, they are always in a group with other girls, but more importantly, other guys. Only girls I see without guys are the ugly ones (obviously).

2. Even when I see a group of unescorted hot girls, my friends are way too AFCish to approach so I don't bother.

Just wondering..

 

[ShizamDaMan]

1. Make observations if the guys are the girl's boyfriends of jusr friends. If they are just friends, go and talk to them once you find your balls.

2. Make new friends. This helps IMMENSELY!

 

[UnexpectedTeen]

but more importantly, other guys.

So wat? with other guys does not mean anything. they might be AFCs *** Mobile ATM for all you know for the gals. if you want want you want, you will go for it, there is no amount of excuses that will stop you.

1. Usually, when I go to places where girls might show up, they are always in a group with other girls, but more importantly, other guys. Only girls I see without guys are the ugly ones (obviously).

excuse no1
ugly.... so wat? go approach! learn from your mistakes and improve! very few reconize that the ultimate goal of these approches are not to get a # close or watsoever BUT to train your mind to the state that you do not view an "approach" as an approach, you feel like it, so you do it!

2. Even when I see a group of unescorted hot girls, my friends are way too AFCish to approach so I don't bother.

excuse no2
friends too AFC? cant you make new friends that are up to your "standards"? pple here usually call them as wingman. seardh to find out more if you want to.

 

[maosrdbf]

Originally posted by UnexpectedTeen
So wat? with other guys does not mean anything. they might be AFCs *** Mobile ATM for all you know for the gals. if you want want you want, you will go for it, there is no amount of excuses that will stop you.



excuse no1
ugly.... so wat? go approach! learn from your mistakes and improve! very few reconize that the ultimate goal of these approches are not to get a # close or watsoever BUT to train your mind to the state that you do not view an "approach" as an approach, you feel like it, so you do it!



excuse no2
friends too AFC? cant you make new friends that are up to your "standards"? pple here usually call them as wingman. seardh to find out more if you want to.

Yeah.. I know what a wingman is, and my friends are new friends that I just changed to like..a month ago. I won't do that **** again. I have a friend who can be my wingman but when it comes down to doing something, he backs out, unless he is wasted.

With the issue of girls coming with guys... I think it is fairly obvious that they are probably coming from or going to a party where they have/will gotten/get drunk and hook up. Also, approaching girls that are already with guys starts fights. I know that if we were with girls and some guys approached them, my friend would just attack them.