"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone else prefer 7's & 8's to the 9's & 10's

mahon83050

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Maybe I am different, but I would prefer to actually date a 7 or 8 chick as opposed to a 9 or a 10.

I know alot of guys like to get super hot girfriends to show them off.

However, I am a reserved and don't like bring attention to myself. This is exactly what a 9 or a 10 will do!!

Anyone else like this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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someone is seriously asking this question?

umm what if my 7 is different than your 10?

maybe you should ask if people rather go for pretty chicks than blazing hot ones.
 

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hard to rate a girl really...I don't go in for the fake look at all, which seems to be a 10 in the eyes of most guys - pretty, intelligent, friendly, loyal and interesting is all I want....they seem quite thin on the ground too :( too many fakes :cuss:
 

Cash

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Sometimes an '8' can be a '10' and visa versa. it's all relative.

Most people link 9 & 10's with being demanding, unapproachable and high maintenance, while other think they would have absolutely no chance with HB10.
 
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