Anyone else notice this?

[captain55]

Last time I went to Miami I saw hundreds and thousands of fine women. The hottest chick I saw at the club the entire trip, I ended up pulling. Coincidence? I don’t think so this is not the first time this has happened.

The higher my initial Interest level in the chick the more successful I am. You figure it would be the other way around. A guy can’t pull his dream 9 so he lowers his standards and eventually bangs a 7...not me. I have no success with 7’s but I can bang a 9 I’m extremely interested in.

I truly believe that when your extremely attracted to a woman she can pick up on it. And your game is automatically elevated without even trying. Put a 9 in front of me I’m a natural...a 7 where I just wanna get my **** wet? I struggle

Notice I said “extremely” attracted to. That chick you flat out can’t take your eyes off of.

I mean it makes sense from a biological perspective if you think about it. A girl is more likely to **** (and be attracted to) with a guy that’s blown away by her than a guy that only sees her as a 7 or 8.

 

[TheProspect]

I mean it makes sense from a biological perspective if you think about it. A girl is more likely to **** (and be attracted to) with a guy that’s blown away by her than a guy that only sees her as a 7 or 8.

Depends on how you act on your intense attraction. There's a difference between a man with confidence who knows what he wants and a man who immediately pedestalizes a woman based on looks. And I would argue that unless the girl has some interest in you initially, being the latter man does more harm than good for your chances, especially in the long run.

Flipping the genders here, I would eventually dump a plate whose attraction/interest level caused her to act clingy and annoying, and I imagine a girl would get turned off eventually in the same situation too (depending on how a man handles his overwhelming attraction for her). Keeping the genders flipped, I would also be more turned off by a girl I have zero interest in who is adamant about sleeping with me versus a woman who could possibly arouse my interest but acts indifferent towards me. But I have a male brain and cannot relate to a women's decisions so I might be wrong on assuming that more or less the same is true for women.

Regarding first interactions with a woman I'm attracted to, I've shown both significant interest and significant indifference on different occasions and both have worked. It depends on the girl, and it depends on how you handle your attraction.

 

[sazc]

Last time I went to Miami I saw hundreds and thousands of fine women. The hottest chick I saw at the club the entire trip, I ended up pulling. Coincidence? I don’t think so this is not the first time this has happened.

The higher my initial Interest level in the chick the more successful I am. You figure it would be the other way around. A guy can’t pull his dream 9 so he lowers his standards and eventually bangs a 7...not me. I have no success with 7’s but I can bang a 9 I’m extremely interested in.

I truly believe that when your extremely attracted to a woman she can pick up on it. And your game is automatically elevated without even trying. Put a 9 in front of me I’m a natural...a 7 where I just wanna get my **** wet? I struggle

Notice I said “extremely” attracted to. That chick you flat out can’t take your eyes off of.

I mean it makes sense from a biological perspective if you think about it. A girl is more likely to **** (and be attracted to) with a guy that’s blown away by her than a guy that only sees her as a 7 or 8.

This is true.
Just as you guys advise other guys to walk when there are clear signs of IL, the female can see/sense IL as well. If you're clearly not into her, she will be less attracted/responsive towards you.

Of course the flip side is the female taking advantage of that fact that you are enamored with her by being disingenuous. But there is also advice on these boards as to ho to properly gauge IL, and then to act accordingly.

 

[zekko]

When you are highly attracted to a woman you are going to be more highly motivated and energized to approach and interact with her.
The flip side of this is that when you are highly attracted, you tend to get emotionally invested in the outcome, and that can lead to nervousness, and supplicating and desperate behaviors.

However, since captain55 is a DJ, I'm sure he is well aware of the potential pitfalls, so he can take advantage of being driven while avoiding those pitfalls. The result is more success, makes sense to me.