Anyone else just enjoying meeting new women?

[latinnova]

So, I've come to find that I am not at all nervous to go and talk to woman. I mean I haven't done it in 14 years, but now that I do it I just think of something that has to do with a situation we are in and never use a pre-written pick up line. Sounds more sincere and we are off talking like crazy. I have also come to realize rejection doesn't bother me one bit. Anyhow I have found that I am not interested in bar sloots at all. I mean, that is a huge turn off to me. I'm not worried about getting laid, I had a wife for the past 14 years and got laid all the time, when ever I wanted. It is nice and all, but I'm not running around like a 18 year old kid with a boner tucked up in my waste band cause I need to fook 24/7.... been there done that, lol.

So now that I have been going out, I have come to find that I actually like finding quality woman and talking to them, actually getting to know them, and let what ever happens happen. I could give a damn less if I get laid, but just seeing and meeting new faces, and finding out what is going on in other peoples lives are simply amazing to me right now. Am I the only one who is not going out with the purpose to get laid when I go to meet women, lol? Like I said, I have probably had sex for the past 14 years every other day on average. So while nice, it's not a burning passion in me. But if it happens, so be it, but it's not why I am out there. I am out there to meet and get to know new quality woman, that is what interests me the most. I have found I love it, because it is a hunt. Good quality woman with substance are hard to find.

 

[Colossus]

Am I the only one who is not going out with the purpose to get laid when I go to meet woman, lol? Like I said, I have probably had sex for the past 14 years every other day on average. So while nice, it's not a burning passion in me. But if it happens, so be it, but it's not why I am out there. I am out there to meet and get to know new quality woman, that is what interests me the most. I have found I love it, because it is a hunt. Good quality woman with substance are hard to find.

And that is why you will enjoy more success than 90% of guys out there whose #1 objective is to get laid.

Do you know how much more attention I get now that I am happily monogamous? I really think part of it is I just don't care about getting laid, so I present myself differently. And as a result, I could probably land more tail than I ever did when single. I know, I know, big talk....but women are much more sensitive to attitude than we are.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Latin Nova,
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Collossus beat me to the button!

 

[nolesfan]

From everything I have been through, that is my goal going forward. I am just going to go out and practice talking to girls without the intent of getting laid and see what comes of it.

Also, what I was thinking of when dealing with these "hot" girls who just like to toy with guys. I was thinking about pulling this scenario.

"Hot girl goes out with her other friends who are probably 7's to her 10, and instead of going for the 10, I plan on paying no attention to the 10 and talking to one of the 7's" I am sure the 10 normally gets all the attention, time to flip the script.....plus from things I read earlier, its probably smarter to go for the 7 anyways, less headache.

Anyone try this with those intentions?

 

[latinnova]

From everything I have been through, that is my goal going forward. I am just going to go out and practice talking to girls without the intent of getting laid and see what comes of it.

Also, what I was thinking of when dealing with these "hot" girls who just like to toy with guys. I was thinking about pulling this scenario.

"Hot girl goes out with her other friends who are probably 7's to her 10, and instead of going for the 10, I plan on paying no attention to the 10 and talking to one of the 7's" I am sure the 10 normally gets all the attention, time to flip the script.....plus from things I read earlier, its probably smarter to go for the 7 anyways, less headache.

Anyone try this with those intentions?

Yes, those famous pua's mystery and style have preached this quite a while, and that is exactly how you will get the 10.

 

[Night-hawk]

Nice post. No one said we have to approach with heads set on equality, but the humanity factor is what humbles us, un-strains our eyes over beauty, steadies our demeanor, readies our wits, and lightens our attachment to outcomes.