"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Anyone else into Mixed Martial Arts?

BootsOfEscaping

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2005
Messages
84
Reaction score
0
Location
limbo
You guys train or watch MMA? UFC, Pride etc? I missed the last Pride but there is an upcoming UFC next month that should be good. Tito vs. Vitor Belfort. I cant stand Tito so I hope he gets spanked. My fav fighter Wanderlai Silva is supposed to fight Randy Couture at some point which would be a fantastic match. Couture is amazing and Silva is brutal. I would give a slight edge to Couture in that match. Any of you guys into this stuff?

I have trained for years but stopped some time ago. I found a system called "Attack Proof" that is a straight combat system(based on the old school highly effective Marine Corp system) which is more useful but isn't that same thing as MMA for sport.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Alpine

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 21, 2004
Messages
1,576
Reaction score
3
Location
south west, uk
Well I've just got back from training, I'm too old (and scared) to compete in the ring.

But our club combines allsort, mainly reality based stuff though.

We do BJJ, Krav Maga, non-classical Wing Chun, western boxing.

We have a fightclub series here and it's a good night out.
 

shrewd

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 22, 2004
Messages
118
Reaction score
0
Age
41
Location
kingston, ontario
my fav fighter is randleman but he's been sucking lately :( Besides that i like silva and fedor. I'm thinkin of taking up some kind of martial arts, what do you think is better, muay thai or BJJ?
 

MindOverMatter

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 21, 2004
Messages
1,887
Reaction score
12
I've been taking Muay Thai for a long while now, it's by far my favorite striking martial art. I plan on starting BJJ training too once I have more cash to spend around on martial arts.

Muay Thai vs Brazilian Jiu Jitsu? Well it depends what you want out of them:

- if you want fast knockouts, MT all the way.

- if you want to be able to handle yourself in 1v2 or 1v3 fights, go for muay thai.

- if you are planning on pursuing a career in where neutralizing an opponent is preferred over knocking them out (i.e. hospital security, etc), take BJJ.

- if you want to be amazing at 1v1 fights, take BJJ. when it comes to a striker vs grapler fights where both opponents are of equal skill, the striker will lose.

- if you want to compete, learn both.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

micko

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2004
Messages
19
Reaction score
0
Location
Australia
Ya i do Bjj and some standup classes too

good fun :D
 

BootsOfEscaping

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2005
Messages
84
Reaction score
0
Location
limbo
Yeah I like CroCop too, he is a bad ass.
 

napoleon

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2003
Messages
436
Reaction score
0
Location
Aitaorc
CC guillotined randleman. (btw I'm from Croatia)
Go CroCop- kick Emilianenko's(sp) ass!!!
 

shrewd

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 22, 2004
Messages
118
Reaction score
0
Age
41
Location
kingston, ontario
Originally posted by napoleon
CC guillotined randleman. (btw I'm from Croatia)
Go CroCop- kick Emilianenko's(sp) ass!!!
yeah i'm talking about their first fight where randleman knocked him out with one punch.;) Anyways, whoever wins the CC-Fedor match it should be a great fight.

And mindovermatter thx for explaining those two for me, very helpful. I think I'll take Muay Thai it seems better for self defence purposes and i don't plan on getting in a ring anytime either.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Top