I'm not really talking about people that have never been successful. I'm talking about you guys out there that have been successful but are going through a bad patch. 2010 I always had a couple of women on the go and the quality (looks wise at least) was pretty decent.
2011 - so far one SNL and one hooker. I've turned down sex a couple of times. One chick was a bit short and dumpy and the other just didn't do it for me.
It's starting to get me down, hence these posts I've been making about hitting the wall. That thought depresses me. I thought one real advantage guys have is that we have longevity and can game well into our 30's or even 40's. Was I wrong about this? I'm in shape, look young, etc. Surely it should still be pretty feasibly to get women in mid to late twenties?
I could settle down tomorrow. It wouldn't be that hard to find a girl that wants to be with me, if nothing else because I have cash (I'm in Asia and girls are mercenary out here). I really don't want that though. I'd only settle down as a calculated decision if I thought that I had hit that mythical wall. Even then I'm not sure I'd want all the hassle and bull**** of dealing with a relationship.
More and more when I go out to clubs I see girls doing all the choosing - you know I see really good looking guys getting blown off by mediocre women. It's distressing. If it was just me I could accept that but I hate seeing this. It's so much easier with social circle game. Those girls know you and you probably have value already in their eyes. It seems hard to build value with random approaches.
Hate feeling that girls have most of the power in this game. I know that's the idea of game, to turn that round. I've never really worked on pick up game as such cos i thought I never needed it but given this dry spell i'm rethinking that. I bought Mystery's book even (I don't even like the guy - I mean he's probably a decent guy but he looks like a total douche).
Do you guys think game really works? I'm not talking about generic high level game like thinking you're the prize, improving yourself, etc. I'm talking about specific game - openers, techniques in the field, etc. I don't mind putting effort in I guess but only if it's gonna have results. The other damn thing is none of these damn girls really speak enough english to game! I speak their language but not really well.
You know this whole thing about Asian girls being so easy for white guys is really a myth. Don't get me wrong, it's easy to find an Asian girlfriend. But the chances are she'll be pretty ropey and won't be the best looking. Also I often go to clubs where it's all Asian girls and lots of white guys and it's still the white guys doing all of the work. Sometimes it's different but it's not like these girls are throwing themselves at the guys like a lot of people believe. Again i'm not talking about me, just what I see around me. It has happened to me a few times that girls have totally thrown themselves at me here but it's not a regular occurrence. I'm in a big city though. I think it might be different in smaller places where you have more novelty value or indeed in poorer Asian countries.
Actually I'm getting really sick of Asians to be honest. The novelty has truly worn off. They're simply not anywhere near as beautiful as Caucasians/Latinas. And they're damn annoying, squealing with laughter and excitement at every little lame thing. Maybe time to get out of here. I miss white girls.
2011 - so far one SNL and one hooker. I've turned down sex a couple of times. One chick was a bit short and dumpy and the other just didn't do it for me.
It's starting to get me down, hence these posts I've been making about hitting the wall. That thought depresses me. I thought one real advantage guys have is that we have longevity and can game well into our 30's or even 40's. Was I wrong about this? I'm in shape, look young, etc. Surely it should still be pretty feasibly to get women in mid to late twenties?
I could settle down tomorrow. It wouldn't be that hard to find a girl that wants to be with me, if nothing else because I have cash (I'm in Asia and girls are mercenary out here). I really don't want that though. I'd only settle down as a calculated decision if I thought that I had hit that mythical wall. Even then I'm not sure I'd want all the hassle and bull**** of dealing with a relationship.
More and more when I go out to clubs I see girls doing all the choosing - you know I see really good looking guys getting blown off by mediocre women. It's distressing. If it was just me I could accept that but I hate seeing this. It's so much easier with social circle game. Those girls know you and you probably have value already in their eyes. It seems hard to build value with random approaches.
Hate feeling that girls have most of the power in this game. I know that's the idea of game, to turn that round. I've never really worked on pick up game as such cos i thought I never needed it but given this dry spell i'm rethinking that. I bought Mystery's book even (I don't even like the guy - I mean he's probably a decent guy but he looks like a total douche).
Do you guys think game really works? I'm not talking about generic high level game like thinking you're the prize, improving yourself, etc. I'm talking about specific game - openers, techniques in the field, etc. I don't mind putting effort in I guess but only if it's gonna have results. The other damn thing is none of these damn girls really speak enough english to game! I speak their language but not really well.
You know this whole thing about Asian girls being so easy for white guys is really a myth. Don't get me wrong, it's easy to find an Asian girlfriend. But the chances are she'll be pretty ropey and won't be the best looking. Also I often go to clubs where it's all Asian girls and lots of white guys and it's still the white guys doing all of the work. Sometimes it's different but it's not like these girls are throwing themselves at the guys like a lot of people believe. Again i'm not talking about me, just what I see around me. It has happened to me a few times that girls have totally thrown themselves at me here but it's not a regular occurrence. I'm in a big city though. I think it might be different in smaller places where you have more novelty value or indeed in poorer Asian countries.
Actually I'm getting really sick of Asians to be honest. The novelty has truly worn off. They're simply not anywhere near as beautiful as Caucasians/Latinas. And they're damn annoying, squealing with laughter and excitement at every little lame thing. Maybe time to get out of here. I miss white girls.
