"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone else have serious issues with girls using strats?

IamtheAlphamale

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Seems like every girl I'm interested will do the throw themselves then start the hardcore strategy and thats when I next them. But this is getting seriously rediculious. The thing about chick strategy is you can see right through it. I had a few girls at my old work doing this as well so for over a year I watched and learned how girls opperate and when you watch things you realize a lot. Is anyone else having this issue? I know they are interested because of their actions but they try way too hard. Its hard using words to describe things but I hope you guys know what I mean. I'm not asking for advice about this I just want to discuss it really.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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banGbro

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Yes. Example: last week a chick showed great interest in me. We had hot eye contact, kino, and it was all hot, all that while working together mind you. She even tried to envite me to a club where shes working at. Next day she was asleep from work and then two day weekend, so Monday she was totally different. 180 degrees different. She was mentioning her boyfriend a lot, doing a lot of things to tell me she has a boyfriend, no eye contact, fvcking cold b1tch! What I did? I didnt gave a fvck. When she got tasty with me when I tried to change her radio, told me shes already piss because of her bf, I told her I dont care, thats not my problem. I CFed her that whole day, and by the end of the day she was hot again.


I always try a theory, and stick with it no matter what. I either succeed or burn out. Success itself is two sided, a) you could succeed by getting what you after, b) you could succeed by learning what mistake you made. Here is the four step process I used on her, and its not just that, there is body language, communication, etc, etc..


Step 1 Sparking the Attraction
Step 2 Building Sexual Tension
Step 3 Amplifying the Attraction
Step 4 Physically Advancing




There is no problem with Step 1. Woman will then remote herself from you, as described above. Can we think here that she is doing Step 2? i.e. building sexual tension with you?

I respond, I am ****y and funny, I remove myself from her. I let her know in a ****y and funny way that shes cute. (youre cute when you piss, you so fvcking cute when you piss baby)

When I am bald and unflapping, I get my way. When I wuss up and back off, I am rejected. I think of myself as alpha male, and that her little acts dont affect me, and it actually works. At the end of the day she is flattered by my qualities. Now we can proceeed to Step 3.

I myself am actually flattered when she proceeeds to Step 2. :crackup:



When you next her, or worst when you piss about it, youre doing the opposite of what you think youre doing. She puts you into basket with other loosers, thats all.
 

persiangino

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Solution: ALWAYS have the 'i don't give a **** attitude' to whatever she does as if she's a child. Would you care if a child spat at you, for example? No, cause you realize he's a small child and doesn't know any better.
Her: Confused. 'I must fukc him'
 

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Lately I feel that some make things more complicated than they need be (as I also used to). I have found that women who are attracted to me don't play games. They actually do their best to make things easy for me. The only times they do are some times, when she has a boyfriend, and I guess she is trying to see if I am better than him or not. Even then, it is still rare. I've realized the only games I experience are my own uncertainties in my own head. If she is really playing "games" she does not want you enough.

P.S., banGbro, I assume your post is a joke, right?
 
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