Anyone else have makeouts that lead to nowhere?

[Ratisson]

i went to the club last night and i hustled as many girls that i could. One approach, was on the dancefloor which lead to a lot of kino , and a lot of makeout. But then the girl left to find her friend and it was as if she completely lost interest. Does anyone have any similar experience with this.

On a side note i'm starting to realize that Night Clubs suck for trying to find dates/girlfriend/day2's. Ive had sooooo many number closes which lead to the girl not remembering me much when i call. What a ****ty place to meet women. They are totally drunk when they meet you, and they cant remember sh1t about you the next day.

I'm gonna really put more emphasis on Daytime approaches. At least you can have a conversation with the girl , and when you do get the #, its a lot more likely that she'll remember you, cuz she wasnt drunk out of her mind when she met you.

 

[everywomanshero]

This has been discussed a lot. Number closes are unreliable, many girls give their #s out like candy, pretty much it's esasier for them to give you their (or someone else's #) than to tell you no. It's just the path of least resistance.

Other times maybe they did intend to talk to you later at the time of occurance. Basically, as your game gets better, the numbers start working more reliabily but some will work anyway so for now it's a crapshot.

Makeouts never heard from again and ONSs are also very common.

I guess I am different in that I really don't care what happens. I just want to see how far I can take the interaction right then and there. If I really wanted to find a gf from a nightclub:

1) Call her the same night. Forget about "not looking desperate". Calling to make sure someone got home safely and say goodnight is not desperate and increases the chances you will ever talk to her again.

2) Don't just # close after 15 minutes and think you will follow up in a few days and get somewhere. That could happen, but I feel it's much more likely if you've invested some time with her, gotten her to call YOU (this is really good, think of ways to get them calling you right away), etc.

3) Don't *****foot around forever. I personally wouldn't waste much time with women who don't want to come to my place and such. If she's that fearful that after having met me twice, we can't get intimate, then I can't imagine such a person would be much fun to be around. WHo would want a gf that's agoraphobic or something? Boring. What are the odds she would ever do a 3some with another woman? What are the odds she would go someplace crazy with you on a whim? I mean when it's about a relationship it gets so complicated, casual sex to me is a lot easier and then just let natural selection determine a relationship's potential.

4) There are different schools of thought regarding the difference between leading and chasing. For example, persistance can go a long way. However, that (IMO) is not really mastery. Almost all guys have a learning curb where persistance is absolutely required, but I do feel that eventually when that has became somewhat distasteful that a higher level goal is in mind. The best way I can explain this is to learn about Brent's style (DYD) and compare that to say how Mehow appears in some of his videos. It's not urgent but something to marinate your brain in for the future.

5) Keep a good, steady supply of new numbers coming in each week. Even if 80% flake, keep them coming in and stay active. Things tend to come in cycles for a while. One minute you will probably have more chicks that you can bang and still work/sleep, the next you might have a dry couple of weeks. No biggie, it's normal during the learning curve.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Your what is called the tacky club makeout guy. You gave the chick all the validation she needed and so she now can move on. Your most likely not doing any qualification on these chicks because they are surely flaking.

What your doing is basically playing off a chicks buying temperature which isn't solid game.

I might go as far as saying that you don't build much rapport, qualification I surely know your not doing and your probably making out very long to the point where its the chick who stops the makeout.