Anyone else get the "treatment" sometimes..

[In2theGame]

Well,... My detail's (6' tall, 210 muscular body, Tan skin, green eyes, black hair..etc) I dont think im the hottest guy in the world but ive been told im really hot by HB's. Ever since ive gotten bigger, and muscular.. Other guys look at me with a negative vibe. Ive always recieved warm EC from females, Now Women seem to look me in the eyes less but i look better than ever yet its giving the opposite results. the funniest part about all this is, HB 4-6 are giving me smiles and flirting with me while the HB 7 and up shy away and avoid EC. Why is it that when you try to improve yourself, You get treated in some ways worse than before? Even my coworkers make fun of me because they think im all into myself and body, which is not true. I went to a club last weekend with a friend, this cute spanish chick was checking me out and i smiled, afterwards my friend tells me that she told him i didnt like her and im probably gonna talk to all the "hot" girls, WTF? i smiled and showed interest yet she disqualified herself. I just dont understand it, When your looking and feeling good, its like people want to kick you down for no reason. Anyone else that can relate please post. Thanks

 

[COD]

it's called over-qualifying yourself. Anytime you excell in paticular area (6 pack abs, big arms, brand new car, dark tan, show your intelligence, financially successful, etc) the average Joe feels threatened.

People base their perception mostly upon visual, they make assumptions. They put you into a category BEFORE they even speak with you.

Example-lets say you met a super model or a famous actress.......one might think I better be all that to get a date date her. In reality the opposite is often true. Now there are exceptions to the rules........it's beneficial to date another actor/producer to propel their careers, etc.

Very few people like a show off, in fact some GO OUT OF THEIR WAY to cap on others to validate/entertain themselves......... The media adores it when someone famous screws up.

 

[COD]

it's called over-qualifying yourself. Anytime you excell in paticular area (6 pack abs, big arms, brand new car, dark tan, show your intelligence, financially successful, etc) the average Joe feels threatened.

People base their perception mostly upon visual, they make assumptions. They put you into a category BEFORE they even speak with you.

Example-lets say you met a super model or a famous actress.......one might think I better be all that to get a date date her. In reality the opposite is often true. Now there are exceptions to the rules........it's beneficial to date another actor/producer to propel their careers, etc.

Very few people like a show off, in fact some GO OUT OF THEIR WAY to cap on others to validate/entertain themselves.........EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT SHOWING OFF. The media adores it when someone famous screws up.

My advice.......ANTI-PEACO CK.........don't always be larger than life........blend in 'til they gain your cofidence.

Or you could continue to be a super star but INCREASE THE QUALITY OF PEOPLE you socialize with.

Hope this helps!!

 

[typical]

it's called over-qualifying yourself. Anytime you excell in paticular area (6 pack abs, big arms, brand new car, dark tan, show your intelligence, financially successful, etc) the average Joe feels threatened.

People base their perception mostly upon visual, they make assumptions. They put you into a category BEFORE they even speak with you.

Example-lets say you met a super model or a famous actress.......one might think I better be all that to get a date date her. In reality the opposite is often true. Now there are exceptions to the rules........it's beneficial to date another actor/producer to propel their careers, etc.

Very few people like a show off, in fact some GO OUT OF THEIR WAY to cap on others to validate/entertain themselves......... The media adores it when someone famous screws up.

Damn couldnt have put it better myself, I would just like to add that once you start to climb that mountain and reach the top its lonely up there and everyone that never made it to the top will hate on you and laugh when you begin to fall off.

The women avoid eye contact with you know as you are now out of their league and they don't see themselves good enough for you. Remember women are very fickle, as in they show off infront of guys that won't have a chance with them yet shy away from guys that they don't have a chance with (or so they think)

 

[Black suit]

Congrats on leveling up so far!

 

[In2theGame]

Thanks guys for the positive replies. i will be sure to keep all this advice in mind. i guess as you improve yourself, your attitude has to adjust as well. A positive attitude of course, though there will be people trying to knock you down.

 

[Warrior74]

time to go after those 9's and 10's. They won't be openly choosing as much. EC will be a glance at most. You're gonna just have to be in tune and feel the vibe and if you feel a good vibe from her, go introduce yourself.