"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone else get really motived when someone flakes?

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It's like a pissed off motivation. I know I didn't handle the phone call well. It was like this:

Her: *bullshiz excuse.* "Maybe some other time"
Me: "Yeah, maybe next week... actually, nevermind. I'll talk to you some other time."

But, I ended up going through the phone list and finding someone else to go to out with, then went out and saw a live band play and met a bunch of new people. Turned out better than if the plans went through.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Haha, motived! I love it. Good for you... that's a pretty positive thing to turn out of a flake.
 
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seanchai said:
Haha, motived! I love it. Good for you... that's a pretty positive thing to turn out of a flake.
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LOL, so spelling isn't one of my strong suits.

I've done the same thing in the past to when it's happened. It's just like, "B!tch, I'll show you" type of deal even though they'll never know. haha It's also 100x better than sitting at home going, "This sucks. Why did this happen"
 
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hmm, i'll try to think like that the next time it happens to me
 
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