Anyone else find it impossible to use condoms?

[itishe]

hey,

Been having some troubles in the sex department. Been with this girl for over a month and we finally got around to sex as she told me she was a virgin. She's really inexperienced which is a turn off as you almost gotta position her whole body and it kills the mood.

She isn't on the pill/shot, so I had to use a condom, something I havn't done in about 4-5 years. During foreplay I can maintain a hard erection but when it comes to slipping on the condom, trying to penetrate an ungodly tight hole, along with her laying there still I just lose it. If I slip the condom off anyd return to foreplay it gradually comes back. It's getting a bit embarrassing as each time we go to have sex it leads to the same thing so she ends up blowing me, etc.

My last couple ltr's all took female birth control so perhaps I'm just conditioned to not using one or it's performance anxiety. Anyone else get this? Tips? I talked to her and told her it's because I don't like condoms and that she isn't the cause. Perhaps try talking her into starting the pill?

 

[Veridin]

You should definitely get some lubricant, it helps a lot when you use a condom. I almost never use a condom without lubricant.

Condoms ... terrible things. I can really understand how smokers feel when they use a nicotine patch; just enough to dull the desire to manageable levels, but the pleasure is gone.

A way to make women understand what it feels like to use a condom is to give them nothing to drink but water that has been boiled and then allowed to go cold. It takes away your thirst, yes. But the fresh taste of water is gone. (Yes, I have done that)

But, women know that men will come to them anyway for sex, so why bother with buying birth control? Let the men carry the cross in that department. "if he dont like it he can just try to get another gurl lol".

 

[Colossus]

Try to get her to start the pill. I LOATHE condoms. They do prevent disease and reduce the risk of pregnancy, but unless you are banging random girls you dont NEED them. I agree with the above poster---when I have used them in the past I try to use Magnums. Not because I have a monstrous wang, lol, but it doesnt strangulate the base of my d!ck and I can actually stay hard. I cannot get off with a condom, however. The way I explain it to girls is I tell them to imagine putting a plastic sandwich bag inside their vagina, then having me fvck that. That paints a clearer picture for them, lol.