Anyone else find blondes and redheads easier?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

glass half full

Master Don Juan

May 10, 2020

Visionist said:
I always attract busty girls with a flat a$$. It's gotten to the point where if a girl has a bubble butt and no tìts I don't even bother with her. They all reject me automatically.

Funny...one I dated long ago, she had big t!ts, no azz and wore pants so tight if the button busted off it might have killed someone...
Later in life I ended up working with her, her t!ts were smaller and a$$ bigger...wtf? Maybe padded bra the first time? She looked good to me later, but was pissed that I passed her up the first time. Oh well

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.