PlayerinTraining
Senior Don Juan
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Anyone else feel women who talk about other men just as you meet them are completely unattractive?
Tonight I was out with a good friend of mine at a local bar, checking out the World Series. A group of 3 girls (early to mid 30's), not stunning, but not unattractive, walk into the bar. One girl is clearly the dominant one, (she was a loud, obnoxious, and a bit conceited, IMHO) and starts her flirtation games with my friend and I. She was more focused on my friend, b/c he plays along with and even enjoys the games women play.
I enter the conversation every now and then, but I'm more focused on the ball game. I make a few joking comments to one woman, who didn't seem to get it. So I gracefully bow out, leave her alone, and keep my attention on the game. Later on, this woman (the most attractive) moves over to my side of the bar, and we talk a bit. She is clearly desperate for male attention.
My friend was still talking to the 2 other girls, about their relationship problems with the guys they were seeing.
The girl was telling me about this "friends with benefits" relationship she has going on with some other guy, and how she is "happy" with it at this point, but her friends think she is crazy, and could do better.
At this point, what little interest I had in this woman vanished. I let her talk about her situation, and moved on to a few other topics, but at the end of the night, I didn't bother asking for her number.
I translated her "I'm happy with this relationship" to really mean "I'm really ashamed, but I can't do without the male attention."
Women who talk about other men when you aren't even friends to them strike me as needy, manipulative, and self absorbed. They simply assume because I'm a male, that I'm necessarily attracted to them, that I automatically want sex, and that I'm willing to do whatever it is they want in order to get it.
I know women do this out of instinct, and that if I want to date many woman I need to put up with it. But, I just find it a complete turn off.
My theory--a woman can do whatever the hell she wants, just don't flaunt it in front of me, and try to use it to get me jealous.
Any woman who tries this on me is immediately NEXTED.
Am I wrong for looking at it this way?
Tonight I was out with a good friend of mine at a local bar, checking out the World Series. A group of 3 girls (early to mid 30's), not stunning, but not unattractive, walk into the bar. One girl is clearly the dominant one, (she was a loud, obnoxious, and a bit conceited, IMHO) and starts her flirtation games with my friend and I. She was more focused on my friend, b/c he plays along with and even enjoys the games women play.
I enter the conversation every now and then, but I'm more focused on the ball game. I make a few joking comments to one woman, who didn't seem to get it. So I gracefully bow out, leave her alone, and keep my attention on the game. Later on, this woman (the most attractive) moves over to my side of the bar, and we talk a bit. She is clearly desperate for male attention.
My friend was still talking to the 2 other girls, about their relationship problems with the guys they were seeing.
The girl was telling me about this "friends with benefits" relationship she has going on with some other guy, and how she is "happy" with it at this point, but her friends think she is crazy, and could do better.
At this point, what little interest I had in this woman vanished. I let her talk about her situation, and moved on to a few other topics, but at the end of the night, I didn't bother asking for her number.
I translated her "I'm happy with this relationship" to really mean "I'm really ashamed, but I can't do without the male attention."
Women who talk about other men when you aren't even friends to them strike me as needy, manipulative, and self absorbed. They simply assume because I'm a male, that I'm necessarily attracted to them, that I automatically want sex, and that I'm willing to do whatever it is they want in order to get it.
I know women do this out of instinct, and that if I want to date many woman I need to put up with it. But, I just find it a complete turn off.
My theory--a woman can do whatever the hell she wants, just don't flaunt it in front of me, and try to use it to get me jealous.
Any woman who tries this on me is immediately NEXTED.
Am I wrong for looking at it this way?
