“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Anyone else feel like their head is going to explode?

[S]alvatore

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I've been reading a few threads tonight, and all they seem to be full of is people questioning life, the world, women, and getting agitated because there aren't any answers or solutions to their problems. At one point my brain felt like it had an information overload, which I thought was going to explode. I think you should stop bickering with each other, don't disregard someone else or their theory/idea because you disagree with them. We should all be on the same page, and be trying to solve lifes challenges together. Stop b!tching.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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This is what happens when people are reliant on external means to determine their life's direction. It's the consequence of relinquishing your personal control.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
This is what happens when people are reliant on external means to determine their life's direction. It's the consequence of relinquishing your personal control.
Even more well said.

Nobody really makes the big decisions for you, but you. Throwing yourself willingly at someone else in dire hopes that they'll solve your problems is very counter-productive and even dangerous. It's the equivalent of a chump thinking that special girl will "solve all their problems". I mean, sure this site is great, it offers some good advice and some guidance. But if you need it to determine the meaning of life and women, it's becoming exactly what it's not supposed to be; a crutch.

Nobody can tell you what you really want, especially a collection of strangers through a series of 0s and 1s. A man will think long and hard about what he wants, not be open to someone elses interpretation of life.

This is exactly what my signature means (to me anyways). You can't teach some of these things or explain them in words. At one point, you just start to know. I think the point of this site is realizing this, and that action is key.
 
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