"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone else feel indifferent about their ethnic background in all this?

HowardHughesDicaprio

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I am of middle eastern background and even though we identify as white on the census I came out looking dark to the point I don't even look anything close to white like Assad does. Never felt that my background has in any way been a setback. The reason I say this is because I read so many posts on this forum from minorities saying that white guys have it made and a tall white male with above average looks will be able to get any kind of woman he wants. For me I am reasonably tall and have been told that I look good and I have not even felt a slight disadvantage when it has come to getting laid and having hot girls in my life. In the grand scheme of all things, I have felt that my background has hardly even mattered. Like some girls will passionately reject me because they are strictly into one group but I feel like almost every guy of whatever race will go through this. Even growing up I didn't feel like I had it harder than my White friends.

Then to come on here and read about how powerful the preferences girls have are and how being a minority is a setback just introduced a new aspect to all this. It seems like almost every member of this forum that is from a minority group (black, indian, or asian) has felt that their background is a big handicap when it comes to getting girls that are white but I just don't get it. For me it has never really played out that way. The only time my ethnic background has been a setback is when girls from minority groups see me with a girl that is white and sometimes show their opposition to it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jaylan

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lol race bait. Figured youd get the hint that no one is interested in your race thread after the other race threads you created didnt go anywhere.
 

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I am Greek living in Scotland. I have no issues pulling birds.. and for some weird issue asians love me.
 

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xupc said:
I am Greek living in Scotland. I have no issues pulling birds.. and for some weird issue asians love me.
Where you living bro?
 

HowardHughesDicaprio

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Jaylan said:
lol race bait. Figured youd get the hint that no one is interested in your race thread after the other race threads you created didnt go anywhere.
and how is this race bait?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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well the reality is the last thing you want be is a black male with dark skin. those humans are at the bottom of the socioeconomic scale and the least desired buy most women 99% of the time.. sad reality and side effect of slavery and jim crow laws
 

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DonGorgon said:
well the reality is the last thing you want be is a black male with dark skin. those humans are at the bottom of the socioeconomic scale and the least desired buy most women 99% of the time.. sad reality and side effect of slavery and jim crow laws
Had it not been for slavery in the US how many black americans be alive today?
 

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I don't know man, being a black guy with dark skin has a very polarizing affect on women which is a good thing. For some reason porn that involves dark skin black men like mandingo or lexington steele with white women sells a lot. From my experience, black guys with dark skin certainly have a niche they can appeal to and it isn't just white girls who are heavily into black culture. Go to France or any European country with african immigrants and these guys are getting white chicks on the reg, even better than a lot of the muslim immigrants.

You wanna talk about a death sentence? try being an asian or indian. Your own women don't want anything to do with you and openly prefer white men over you.
 

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noobolgy said:
Had it not been for slavery in the US how many black americans be alive today?
its was a bad thing and the side effects are tragically sad and debilitating for the black race no matter how you try to twist it..lol but the laws of power are real so expect you not to understand an issue that has not adversely affected you ..

The winning group has the power tok twist things and change reality and that they will do .. its way of nature .. races have come and gone many times in history thats life
 

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In Germany if you are not dark skin they don't like you. I am speaking from experience and word of mouth and talking to a lot of women about it from Germany. As for where I grew up in Chicago....I remember the fad for white girls was Puerto Rican and Black men or bi-racial. Asian and Indian were at the bottom of the totem pole for sure. I think Asian barely beat out Indian. As I get older I notice more minority women going for white men. Mainly Mexican Latinas....not so much puerto rican chicks. And I am seeing a lot of white men with asian women or latinas now. And I am beginning to see Asian women with African America men. I see all types of mixes, but this is what I SEE the most when I go out. Latina women and black men is pretty common to here in Chicago.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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