"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone else experience this?

Scaramouche

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Dear All,
As you all know the Mantra I preach at nauseum is,avoid exclusivity,keep life and relationships fresh and bright by spinning a few Plates...

Lately I have become aware of an interesting phenomena....My principal interest,for a while at least...only Orgvasms once a Week......It is always unpredictable which Day this is going to happen...

Lunchtimes I often hook up with a couple of Ladies,we indulge in lunch,then Walk my Old Dog....Later we get a bit of Afternoon Delight happening,at my place...Being a little Older,these Birds are also very unpredictable in how far their arousal will take them....

Assuming that my Post Prandial delight does get really carried away and we both orgvasm,it is London to a Brick,my Night time dalliance with my principal interest will end with her wanting to go the full distance....Now for many of you young Studs,this is not a problem,but for me it is exhausting,also it means the pleasure all comes at once....

Does anyone else have this problem,if so how do they handle it....

Anyone got any ideas on why it happens....

Before anyone responds with,it is your own energy levels Scarra.....Let me say,after a successful afternoon Rendezvous,in the Evening after we have walked I can be sitting in separate Chairs to my night time lover,watching a Video, she will start getting restless,then say out of the blue...."Scarra my feet are tingling I think tonight is my night"....

Any constructive Ideas appreciated
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Scaramouche said:
Dear All,
Assuming that my Post Prandial delight does get really carried away and we both orgvasm,it is London to a Brick,my Night time dalliance with my principal interest will end with her wanting to go the full distance....Now for many of you young Studs,this is not a problem,but for me it is exhausting,also it means the pleasure all comes at once....

Does anyone else have this problem,if so how do they handle it....

Anyone got any ideas on why it happens....

Before anyone responds with,it is your own energy levels Scarra.....Let me say,after a successful afternoon Rendezvous,in the Evening after we have walked I can be sitting in separate Chairs to my night time lover,watching a Video, she will start getting restless,then say out of the blue...."Scarra my feet are tingling I think tonight is my night"....

Any constructive Ideas appreciated
Hmmm, interesting "problem" :)

If I partake in a "nooner", the night time date better be new or I'm just not that interested.
Properly excited, it doesn't seem to matter how tired I am from my daily activities, I'm good to go.
But with a regular, I would struggle a little second time around.
I think it's interest more than energy.
In the not to distant past, I had three women within an 16 hour period. Had the sequence been different (and not ideal as it was), I wouldn't have been able to do it or likely even wanted to.

Regarding your primary interest ... maybe she's on to you and testing the waters.
Maybe she knows in her gut you're "tired" and she's having a bit of fun with you (which I would respect in a woman!).
Maybe it's you that day (pheromones or something).

Pretty funny question, regardless whether or not I helped or even answered the question, I did enjoy the post :)

SH
 

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I kind of agree on the "interest level" thing, as more interest can't hurt. But, I'd imagine, at your age, there's got to be some physiological effects too. Ever use sex toys? or watch porn together? Are you ejaculating with the noontime girls and that's wearing you out, or just overall tired from the effort of bringing them to orgasm?

According to Chinese Medicine, and Daoist belief, a man over 60 should not allow himself to ejaculate. They believe it drains the life force that keeps us vital in our old age. This doesn't mean never having sex though, and they have developed techniques that can help a geezer keep all his girls happy. Also, from personal experience, when I don't ejaculate, I can maintain interest longer and not have the after sex "downtime" that occurs when I do let go. You are literally recycling the sexual energy into your body for later use. It's kind of like meditation while having sex. Anyway, if you are interested, here's a link to get you started ->
http://www.multi-orgasmic.com/male.html

And much respect! I can only hope to be going as strong as you in 20yrs :D
 

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Dear Mac,
Very constructive contribution..."Ever use sex toys? or watch porn together?" answer No.....

"Are you ejaculating with the noontime girls and that's wearing you out, or just overall tired from the effort of bringing them to orgasm?" Answer Yes to first,no to second...

Mac,that site is very interesting indeed...I like to ejaculate about 15-20 times a month.In the hope this will keep my to Prostate healthy....I am very interested in the advice on Prostate Health.
 

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Interested in your thoughts and experiences, so let us know how it goes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm sure you've heard of the study with rats... female rats liked the male who had just had sex more than the one who didn't. Scent? Behavior? sounds like your answer
 

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Dear Sodbuster,
"female rats liked the male who had just had sex more than the one who didn't."No Sodbuster,never heard of that one,sounds very plausible....Intriguing.
 

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Sacra-
Prostate health is the name of the game after 50, or so. If you're not ejaculating enough, you'll know by changes in your urination routine.
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Sodbuster,
"female rats liked the male who had just had sex more than the one who didn't."No Sodbuster,never heard of that one,sounds very plausible....Intriguing.
I posted about that once. After pulling a ONS one night, I threw my clothes back on and returned to the bar. I was getting LOADS of eye contact from hot girls. Then could sense (or smell?) that I was freshly laid. I could have scored again but was too tired/drained to pursue it.

It's a great experiement for you guys. If you can pull a quickie, don't even shower after. Just put the same clothes on and go right back to the bar or club. See how women respond to you. You'll be amazed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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