"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone else ever see other PUAs in the field?

Alex DeLarge

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I go out to the night clubs and bars about 3 times a week with my friends for fun. We all like to unwind after a tough work week and mingle with the girls and other friends we run into down there.

Lately in my town I've seen a lot more dudes roaming around doing the pick-up thing.. It's so obvious they know this junk, you can just tell by their body language, the way they approach, etc.. I've seen guys that are really well at it and some who are really strange.

Now this makes me think, if I can spot this.. Then I'm sure a lot of the women know what's up consciously. Has anyone on here ever been called up on being a PUA?

My story:
One night I was out with a few friends and I started chatting up this older woman.

HB8: So how old are you?
Me: I'm 22, don't you think asking someone's age is rude?
HB8: No not really
Me: Well then how old are you?
HB8: Take a wild guess
Me: 26?

The HB8 then turns to her girlfriends who were a few years younger and say "See girls, now this guy is out for one thing tonight, he wants to get down a girls pants!" They all started giggling, I started laughing myself.

I then gave her a high five, cheers'd her and said "Hey, you're a pro! You really called me out on that one ___! Have fun tonight"

I was being denied, but it was pretty entertaining and she actually knew what was up haha. Share your stories SS!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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synergy1

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using the stuff word for word is retarded, but so far no women has been able to pick up on it from my end. However, I was in san fransisco last year and saw two dudes try it. We were with an older chick who came with us to some out door event, and the two guys break into the set - a few of us guys , and her. One engages us, and the other starts a stupid opener on the chick. They failed pretty badly. I was tempted to start parroting some mystery method ( phase shift, C2 etc) to taunt them, but at least they were trying so I kept my mouth shut.
 
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