Anyone Else Ever Had a Woman Cry After Sex?

[Harry Wilmington]

Hey guys:

So, I come on these boards and give lots of insight and advice, and I often use stories from my past to illustrate various points. But rarely do I come on here and talk about my current dating situations or who I'm seeing, etc. Personally, I don't think there's a need to get into all that, but something happened this weekend that I figured I would share with you all, and see if anyone else out there has had this happen...

Long story short: I've been seeing a girl for a while now, and Monday we went on a mini out of town trip. After doing some sight-seeing during the day we headed back to a cabin in the woods I rented for the night. No TV, no computers, just us. Once we settled in, she took a shower, then I took a shower, and then we got into bed. Talked for a bit, cuddled up, and then I said outloud: "Alright, time to do this thing."

First thing I did was give her a long back massage. Then, I told her to turn around with her body facing upward and close her eyes (wish I had brought a blind fold, but oh well). I told her to concentrate on the feeling of my hands as I moved them around her body. From there, I started at her stomach, then moved to her chest... yada yada yada, the last stop I made was at her you-know-what. I rubbed her in that area as I whispered in her ear to concentrate on the feeling... a few minutes later, she had an orgasm. She gets really sensitive down there when she comes so I waited a couple more minutes, then I went down on her.

Once I finish, I entered into her. At this point I'm pretty good with angles and knowing which way to go in to hit the g-spot, and that's what I did. A few minutes later and she's screaming her head off, to the point that she ends up wrapping her legs around me like she's holding on for dear life! She lets out one final excited scream...

And then... she starts crying!

Like, bawling in tears crying, only she's not hurt or mad. As she explained it to me, she felt so much emotion and pleasure and excitement in that moment that it overwhelmed her. Even she herself didn't expect to be crying as a result of it, but there she was crying like a baby!

I must say, it was quite interesting to see, and it's one of the few things I haven't seen before at this stage in my game. I'm curious to see if anyone else here has had a woman cry after (or during) sex, as I'd like to think it's not an uncommon thing...

 

[GotED?]

My previous EX-GF did it a few times at the end - but she was a highly sensitive and emotional woman compared to my history of women I have dated.

I think when a woman is an 'above average' emotional type and feels deeply connected with you during the act of secks (they would prefer to call it making love at this level), she will emotionally ejaculate and cry.

It is a good thing unless it happens on the first few times (before any emotional bond exists in a LTR) then that's some fvcked up sexual abuse in the past playing into the NOW.


Exodus

 

[backseatjuan]

No, my girls never cried after love.

You thinking the girl gave you a chance and was disappointed at how bad you were in bed?

 

[MtnMan]

have not had that happen, but it sounds fvcking awesome. Good work, that sounds like you rocked her world.
I myself have felt tears come up a few times lately when I was not sad in the least. Sometimes emotions get on overload, and that's just one way for them to get out.

I say good work :yes:

 

[Mr Wright]

Yeah, my ex would cry about once every 2 months during sex because she was emotionally overwhelmed, this usually happened straight after an orgasm. So I'd just stop, give her a hug and talk to her about why she was crying. She always said she didn't really know why she was crying but she felt really emotional for some reason.

 

[TheSlasher]

Yeah. Not really that uncommon.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Yep a couple times. Sometimes I think it's due to her not even considering what shes going to do until after the deed is done. Kinda left me thinking that my seduction methods are working well if I can get a girl into the sack that given the opportunity to think would not have done so.

 

[JoeMarron]

You just fvcked her right. Congrats

 

[handle]

This happens from time to time. Some girls more than others. A "release of emotion." Unless you're totally soulless you know what to do -- just be there, be next to her. It's kinda beautiful in a weird way, isn't it?

 

[Turuwal]

Yep. Before, during and after. It seems to be related to how emotionally wound up they are. Some are disconnected from the world because of various stuff that has happened so they use sex with a high-quality, emotionally mature and empathetic male to reconnect and unwind some of their anxiety.

 

[jafyk]

No, my girls never cried after love.

You thinking the girl gave you a chance and was disappointed at how bad you were in bed?

LMAO! :crackup: What an as$h0le you are. That was funny though. Anyway, yeah I've had a girl I was seeing cry in bed during sex. She didn't know why.

 

[CumChowder]

Never.

I have only known from my limited experiences, much less than the posters above me. (Exaggeration effect perhaps?) It is most likely they are virgins when they *attempt* to cry. From my encounters, they my shed a "tear" when they think you are susceptible to believing you took their virginity. Their eyes most likely roll to the back of teir heads, similar to experiencing euphoria for the first time. Other than that, they are much more experienced in sex than you or I will ever be. Thus, they use that decoy to influence you to believe you are a special snowflake. 99% of the time, you are not. Place your bet.

 

[Cremasta]

Yeah, they either cry or wet the bed... just keep some tissues nearby to clean up.

 

[Huffman]

I've had
- girl shaking all the time like having cramps but not during orgasm
- girl mewling like a kitten (she was trying to turn me on?)
- girl starting to babble incoherently as if I'd f*cked her silly, but I hadn't really done much yet
- girl who instead of moaning mady crying noises

A lot of times, you start f*cking and immediately go "uuuuh... what is she doing ". Actually, so far I haven't had a single girl behave "normally" as guys here are telling me. And I can never tell if they are doing/faking stuff to turn me on, or if they really are experiencing something crazy. It really is funny!

 

[donking]

yeah when I f'ed the first time I visited her family in another country

 

[El Payaso]

It's an emotional manipulation tactic. Sometimes consciously, other times unconsciously.

 

[YawataNoKami]

It's an emotional manipulation tactic. Sometimes consciously, other times unconsciously.

This.

Most of the times means she is crazy..........


I hate to reduce everything a woman says or does to a **** test, but in this case, these crying outbursts are… yes… very much a **** test.Absolutely do not try to talk it out and especially don’t try to fix things then.Do not get caught up in her emotional storms. It is a good strategy to have for any of her strong emotions. Be aloof and indifferent. Do not react emotionally yourself. Be an observer and react strategically.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Ha the broad that took me vcard, but not for the reasons in your post. yeah I had no clue what I was doing.

The other time that sticks out was more or less tearing up some rather than crying. It was pretty much after the squirting & convulsions tapered off. I had no clue she was capable of it and it caught me by surprise. I ignored the tears & focused on how much it turned me on. She passed out snoring 5mins later.

She gets the academy award if she was faking any of it. She hid the tears as much as she could, she was definitely a crazy little sl*t. Goodtimes.

 

[Huffman]

I think it's crazy how much a bit of penetration would alter a woman's state of mind. I always thought that stuff is faked to hell and back.

 

[chessica]

It's an emotional manipulation tactic. Sometimes consciously, other times unconsciously.

Jeez Louise. I try to stay quiet here but comments like this made me register.
I understand its easier to believe everything we do it an action towards you. However, as an 'above average emotional girl' I have on occassion cried after sex. As others have stated, it was when I was emotionally bound up and having sex was a release for that.
Had nothing to manipulation, sometimes I would causally go to the bathroom and cry there and he'd have no idea. It was about the physical act of sex and what that did to my body.

Op just take heart that this only happened when the sex was good and don't read too much into it. Hard for guys here, I know. Give her a cuddle and move on with life.