"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone else doing the same thing?

LegendBoy

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At the moment I am not in my peak personal condition and I am no where near my best I could be.

Thus my standards are average and a lil above average chicks. I am not bothering with the hot girls yet.. People may say this excuses but it isn't.

Here is why the hot girls I am talking about I see time and time again around the place I live, therefore I can go into trying to pick them up with no regrets as when I am at my best, I truely have no excuses..

Feel me??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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unorthodox

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I do something very similar. I go for not as hot girls, but they still look beautiful. More often than not I attract MILFs. With really hot babes I don't feel it going, it seems that I have to do more work around them. Plus I don't work, so a nice MILF or wify is just fine, they can cook, and dating is optional.
 

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I'm not sure what the question is, but I don't really have much interest in "hot" girls, other than in their looks. In my experience, every hot person I've encountered has been really stupid.
 

diablo

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While I feel you on some level, I can't help but say that you should be attempting to pick up girls on levels you don't expect you can get on a regular basis. If you only limit yourself to people that you know you can have, you'll never improve nor will you grow. Only by pushing yourself will you be able to get someone you don't feel you could have ever had before.
 
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