"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone else do MMA?

Jvesti

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Hey everyone,

For the past month I've been training in mma. (Brazilian Ju-Jitsu, boxing, wrestling). Doing real good because of my physical strength no one can go toe to toe strengthwise namely at my weight. Gives me a good base. Still the real experienced bjj guys are tappin me out every time i make a stupid move. I really love this sport its a lot like playing chess when your on the ground. I'm definitely all about competing in a few months.

who else is into it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shiftkey

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I've been involved for more than 2 years - more so focused on Muay Thai and boxing than BJJ, though I really should train more with BJJ. It's a lot of fun and great for confidence.
 

WesCottII

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Chinese Boxing, Mauy Thai, JKD, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, Judo, Shootfighting, Kickboxing, Wrestling, Western Boxing.

I do concepts from any of the above.
 

Skel

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I dont do MMA but I appreciate the sport.
 

donjuanjovi

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I started out boxing but I got into MMA because it's more exciting in my opinion. I stopped because I went back to school. I want to gain 20 pounds so it's back to the weights for me. Hopefully I can get back into it after the school year is up and start working on my ju-jitsu and ground skills.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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