Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
1- Eggs cheeze and milk gotta go. I am lactose intolerant and only can have a little milk. Are there any ways to substitute this? Should I just stuck with some protien supp in water in place of milk.Breakfast
4 eggs
2 slices of toast
1 glass of milk
Snack
Bran Muffin
1 glass of milk
Lunch
Sandwich (i.e. meat, cheese, tuna fish, etc.)
piece of fruit
1 glass of milk
Snack
Granola bar
Slice of cheese
1 glass of milk
Supper
Meat (i.e. chicken, beef, pork, etc.)
Pasta, Rice, or Potatoes
Cup of veggies
1 glass of milk
Snack
2 slices of toast
1 glass of milk
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The original 20 rep breathing squat program is 3 workouts a week, where you start of with your 10-12 rep max and add 2.5kg/5lb every workout for 6 weeks.synergy1 said:I am really interested in this program but have a few questions. I have been doing this for two weeks, with week #3 taking place now, and am up to 225 lbs going parallel.
1- Eggs cheeze and milk gotta go. I am lactose intolerant and only can have a little milk. Are there any ways to substitute this? Should I just stuck with some protien supp in water in place of milk.
2- 3 days per week seems like to little at the gym. Does throwing in other workouts hurt your gains? will cardio require more ingestion of calories?
I am 177 lbs now, and would like to ultimately be 190 but below my current bf ( I think I am between 12-15% but not sure). As I have said earlier, the goal is overall athletic performance and don't want to exceed 190 due to the fact it will slow me down.
Thanks in advance!
Try it before you knock it m8. The thing with squats is that you can "rest" when you are at the top. Imagine taking that weight you can do 10 reps with and then pushing out 20 by resting at the top. Squat 3 times a week doing one set and you'll come back here and say "omfg, insane increases!".camdry90 said:seriously bud whats your deal, if you want to squat more weight thats the way to do it... 20+ reps sounds like its for someone cutting...
With a diet consisting of pure milk daily, that aspect isn't for me. From the workout side of it, I plan on finishing the third week anyway. Its tough/brutal, but thats nothing new in my routines. There is always energy in the tank.JDiddy said:If you ask me, from what you have posted above, this routine is not for you.
Ah, I thought it wasn't normal for me to feel like that, but if it's supposed to be so, no worries then, thanks!Drum&Bass said:your lower back should feel uncomfortable during high rep squats, it is in constant isometric contraction the entire time the bar is on your back.
Plus you have to tilt forward at the bottom of the squat creating even more tension on the lower back.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
nice work guy. you an athlete? what sports did you play? just curious.Jitterbug said:95kg x20! Nailed that motherfvcker!
This was actually the easiest one I've done. Not much leg shaking, I was stuffed at the end but it was the first time I didn't have to literally lie down. Just had to sit down & rest for 2-3 mins then onto the powerclean.
Next to me was this big dude quarter-squatting 90kg with b!tch-pad.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.