"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone else as bored as me?

kavi

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I feel very bored and depressed with stuff. By stuff I mean the mainstream things, entertainment, most people, sports, hobbies and interests. I'm almost 39 and I feel like I've seen evrything which is already out there. I'm not really motivated to interact with women cos I feel I know the game quite well, i've seen evrything in the shops, jobs and careers are meh, travelling is lame cos most places are the same now.

Back when I was younger uptill 35 stuff still interested me. But now evrything like ppl, entertainment, ideas, debates, feminism, trad, culture wars, manosphere, money I feel like evrything is out there and in the mainstream we are just going roung in circles just repeating the same **** that happened years ago. For instance Andrew Tate to me is just like RooshV and that was more than 10years ago.

Is it just me or are others (esp 30+) also feeling like we are just going in circles and things are getting boring and repetitive, and meaningless. I know what needs to happen but just wanna know how others feel.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I feel very bored and depressed with stuff. By stuff I mean the mainstream things, entertainment, most people, sports, hobbies and interests. I'm almost 39 and I feel like I've seen evrything which is already out there. I'm not really motivated to interact with women cos I feel I know the game quite well, i've seen evrything in the shops, jobs and careers are meh, travelling is lame cos most places are the same now.

Back when I was younger uptill 35 stuff still interested me. But now evrything like ppl, entertainment, ideas, debates, feminism, trad, culture wars, manosphere, money I feel like evrything is out there and in the mainstream we are just going roung in circles just repeating the same **** that happened years ago. For instance Andrew Tate to me is just like RooshV and that was more than 10years ago.

Is it just me or are others (esp 30+) also feeling like we are just going in circles and things are getting boring and repetitive, and meaningless. I know what needs to happen but just wanna know how others feel.
I am around 50. Yes it is like that. You saw the matrix. I think you can go back to the matrix and feel good about it. Specillly when you get older you can make better priorities. That is why older people are generally more happier.
 

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We are pushing 40 bro. Maybe its some sort of mid life crisis.

Try new things. Settle down and have a kid (if its something you want)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I feel very bored and depressed with stuff. By stuff I mean the mainstream things, entertainment, most people, sports, hobbies and interests. I'm almost 39 and I feel like I've seen evrything which is already out there. I'm not really motivated to interact with women cos I feel I know the game quite well, i've seen evrything in the shops, jobs and careers are meh, travelling is lame cos most places are the same now.

Back when I was younger uptill 35 stuff still interested me. But now evrything like ppl, entertainment, ideas, debates, feminism, trad, culture wars, manosphere, money I feel like evrything is out there and in the mainstream we are just going roung in circles just repeating the same **** that happened years ago. For instance Andrew Tate to me is just like RooshV and that was more than 10years ago.

Is it just me or are others (esp 30+) also feeling like we are just going in circles and things are getting boring and repetitive, and meaningless. I know what needs to happen but just wanna know how others feel.
Being a nerd helps. I'm interested in nerdy stuff (games, history, art, medicine, physics, chemistry, classical music). So, I'm rarely bored.
 

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You're probably bored because you don't have a sexual resource to tap.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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For instance Andrew Tate to me is just like RooshV and that was more than 10years ago.
True

Is it just me or are others (esp 30+) also feeling like we are just going in circles and things are getting boring and repetitive, and meaningless. I know what needs to happen but just wanna know how others feel.
It's not abnormal to feel as you are feeling.

You're probably bored because you don't have a sexual resource to tap.
I agree with this.
 

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I think that what happened is that since the explosion of social media esp youtube, of google search engine, and instagram, there has been a decline in forums and blogs and online communities of special interests. It seems that things have become more 'centralized' and mainstream. In general there seems to have been a loss of interest communities. Like back in the day, even the PUAs, the had their own sites and blogs, and sites would link to other sites so there was more going on online. IRL it seems to be similar, with subcultures becoming either more mainstream or dying out.
 
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