I was at the gym today and to my pleasany suprise there was a new gym attentdant. Wow! She was a babe. I didn't approach,she was getting showed around,like it was her first day. Anyone sarged on a gym attendant?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Anyone done this?
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I don't see why a gym attendant should be any different than any other girl, unless you let it interfere with you working out.
Hell, I think I was hitting on my English teacher earlier today without realizing it. Good thing she's only like 23 or so.
Hell, I think I was hitting on my English teacher earlier today without realizing it. Good thing she's only like 23 or so.
Paintballguy
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I actually hooked up my cousin with a girl who worked at the gym.blinkwatt said:
Next time you see her, just go up and start talking to her.
organizedconfusion
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LOL-
i used to go this gym and i'd flirt up a storm with one of the girls..i was all pumped up in a tank top and feeling good most of the time i was in there..so i just 'exagerated' it ..just a little.I walked around her puffed up,and acting buff- 'so, you wanna watch me curl 200 lbs.today? that's about two of you combined eh?..' okay, it's not even funny- but it's just BSing with her and having a good time..i figure i see her there all the time anyways ,and she IS hot ,why not make the best of it? just light fun between sets, lots of eye fvcking , smiles, you know- just BSing around..it's flirting dude,have fun with it...
i used to go this gym and i'd flirt up a storm with one of the girls..i was all pumped up in a tank top and feeling good most of the time i was in there..so i just 'exagerated' it ..just a little.I walked around her puffed up,and acting buff- 'so, you wanna watch me curl 200 lbs.today? that's about two of you combined eh?..' okay, it's not even funny- but it's just BSing with her and having a good time..i figure i see her there all the time anyways ,and she IS hot ,why not make the best of it? just light fun between sets, lots of eye fvcking , smiles, you know- just BSing around..it's flirting dude,have fun with it...