I was at the gym today and to my pleasany suprise there was a new gym attentdant. Wow! She was a babe. I didn't approach,she was getting showed around,like it was her first day. Anyone sarged on a gym attendant?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Anyone done this?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ace of Flames
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I don't see why a gym attendant should be any different than any other girl, unless you let it interfere with you working out.
Hell, I think I was hitting on my English teacher earlier today without realizing it. Good thing she's only like 23 or so.
Hell, I think I was hitting on my English teacher earlier today without realizing it. Good thing she's only like 23 or so.
Paintballguy
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I actually hooked up my cousin with a girl who worked at the gym.blinkwatt said:
Next time you see her, just go up and start talking to her.
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
LOL-
i used to go this gym and i'd flirt up a storm with one of the girls..i was all pumped up in a tank top and feeling good most of the time i was in there..so i just 'exagerated' it ..just a little.I walked around her puffed up,and acting buff- 'so, you wanna watch me curl 200 lbs.today? that's about two of you combined eh?..' okay, it's not even funny- but it's just BSing with her and having a good time..i figure i see her there all the time anyways ,and she IS hot ,why not make the best of it? just light fun between sets, lots of eye fvcking , smiles, you know- just BSing around..it's flirting dude,have fun with it...
i used to go this gym and i'd flirt up a storm with one of the girls..i was all pumped up in a tank top and feeling good most of the time i was in there..so i just 'exagerated' it ..just a little.I walked around her puffed up,and acting buff- 'so, you wanna watch me curl 200 lbs.today? that's about two of you combined eh?..' okay, it's not even funny- but it's just BSing with her and having a good time..i figure i see her there all the time anyways ,and she IS hot ,why not make the best of it? just light fun between sets, lots of eye fvcking , smiles, you know- just BSing around..it's flirting dude,have fun with it...