“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Anyone catch "Made" on MTV with that ladies man wanna be?

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LOL did you guys see this? There was our poster boy coaching yet another AFC. Although this kid HAD to have been the most hopeless, helpless AFC and general all around dork i have ever seen. Anyhew, it was pretty cool to see the kid slightly transform from a flat 0 to about a 3-4. Pretty cool. He had the kid change the way he dresses, approach women, got him some contact lenses, etc.

However, what I would have done, and i think the ONLY effective way, would have taken A LOT longer, possibly up to a year to transform this kid. the kids main problem, well, is that he was a total scrawny little pathetic worm of a human being.. He needed some SERIOUS heavy duty balls to the wall training in the weight room. I would say at least 6 months 3-4 times a week intense hour long training. Added some muscle on that frame, and it woulda COMPLETELY changed the way the kid walked, talked moved, just about every aspect of his life. THEN, i woulda got to the DJ'ing aspect of things, the mental side of scoring with women.

What do you expect though, its a TV show on MTV.

Anyone cought the show, what was your thoughts/opinions
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yah. I saw it. I'll agree. He pulled out every AFC move. But the improvement was pretty impressive in that short amount of time. I mean, he number-closed and arranged dates and such, when before he couldn't do a thing. By the end of the show though, I didn't think he got very far mentally.
 

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OH man... he is still an AFC.. did you hear what he said to the last date that didn't show up. He calls her and says, "Oh god, I'm a nice guy, really I am!" Tell me thats not AFC and on top of all that he started to cry. AND! it gets better at the end he says he doesn't want to be a ladies man because its too much work.


PS. He also stepped in **** with his new shoes (that explains ALOT!)
 

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First off, I'm surprised crazykid hasn't moved this thread to the Anything Else forum yet. He must have let this slip by his computer alarm :)

Anyways, there was already a post on this, it's now in the Anything Else forum, courtesy of crazykid.

I just say a little bit of that Made episode yesterday. I hope I can catch the whole thing when they rerun it again. From what I saw, that boy was the biggest DORK in the history of dorks. He would probably stand out like a sore thumb in a room full of dorks, he was so bad. I didn't believe my eyes. There must have been some acting involved or something, because I've never seen anything like that. It was ridiculous.

What's with that posture and just nerdy voice that kid had? It was an absolute insult to the male species.
 

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First off, I'm surprised crazykid hasn't moved this thread to the Anything Else forum yet. He must have let this slip by his computer alarm :)

Anyways, there was already a post on this, it's now in the Anything Else forum, courtesy of crazykid.

I just say a little bit of that Made episode yesterday. I hope I can catch the whole thing when they rerun it again. From what I saw, that boy was the biggest DORK in the history of dorks. He would probably stand out like a sore thumb in a room full of dorks, he was so bad. I didn't believe my eyes. There must have been some acting involved or something, because I've never seen anything like that. It was ridiculous.

What's with that posture and just nerdy voice that kid had? It was an absolute insult to the male species. None o fthe girls even looked like they wanted to be his friend much less a love interest.
 

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was his coach David D. Angelo? I just heard that his coach was named David. Yeah, i think i could have easily torn a limb from this poor sap, but I would have to say that they did do a pretty good job on his makeover.
 

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yep yep. Yea that kid needed a LOT more time to transform into a dj.

BTW, why in THE HELL would a post like this belong in the anything else forum. Is crazykid on some power trip? Dude, leave it here, it belongs in the DJ forum. Were discussion about how this kids transformation froma total pathetic AFC into a sorta RAFC. Sounds like donjuan discussion to me.
 

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myfriendblu I think you are wrong about the weight training. I know a REALLY skinny dude that is a complete pimp.

And I also think you guys are completely blowing the concept of "true DJ" out of proportion. A true DJ is unapologetically himself, which is what this kid was. David changed the packaging and offered guidance and support. David let this kid understand that he was ALREADY a lot closer to being a ladies man than he would have thought.

All in all you can BE an AFC and still get poon. What worked for this guy is that he was aggressive, and rolled the dice a LOT of times.

Telling this kid to be C+F and not to supplicate would have been premature. He'd figure those things out later if he just continued along the path and got lots of numbers and went out on lots of dates.
 

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It might be that there's another post talking about the same thing as this one in Anything Else. That's maybe why it slipped passed the radar.

Anyways, he did improve a bit. He was at least confident enough to stand out in front of his campus and greet just about every woman walking in his direction. He even tried to talk to a particular woman right in front of her man (Even David had to stop him there). He was able, at that moment, to risk rejection to talk to these women. He obviously still has a LONG way from being a DJ, and seriously needs to build up the discipline in becoming one, because that's is what he lacks.
 

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Originally posted by Black Bahindian
He obviously still has a LONG way from being a DJ, and seriously needs to build up the discipline in becoming one, because that's is what he lacks.
Understatement of the week right here.
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Among other things he lacks is posture, confidence, a decent voice that doesn't make him sound like an utter fool (he can do voice over work for a GEEK show for heaven's sake!), some meat on his bones, and a little training in less "I'm not worthy" type of behavior (this will be an utter miracle if it ever happens with this guy, and if it does, I'll truly say that anything's possible).
 

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Originally posted by Pecker
myfriendblu I think you are wrong about the weight training. I know a REALLY skinny dude that is a complete pimp.

It didn't have anything to do with being skinny. The kid was was sickly looking, with no coordination or athletic ability whatsoever. I know alot of skinny guys who are coordinated and athletically inclined, like myself. That kid was pathetically weak. he walked, talked and moved with a patheticness. Im not saying this kid needs to buf up at all or go tyler durden style. Im just saying that if he started gettin in shape, became a better athlete and gained a little muscle on his frame, it would make a WORLD of a difference.
 

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Originally posted by myfriendblu
That kid was pathetically weak. he walked, talked and moved with a patheticness.
LOL. In a nutshell, that really says it all. Good stuff. I couldn't have described it better myself.
 
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