Anyways so I was at the club tonight, i got there late as I was meeting some friends. There was this girl that really interested me. She wasn't super hot, but definitely a 7-8 and there was something about her which was so attractive. I guess something about her look. Anyways there was this Average Joe type guy, not even good looking, he was with his friend and they were trying to talk to this girl and her friend. They were fairly receptive, but it was fairly early in the night and the drinks hadn't settled in I guess. So these guys are trying to dance with the girls...and they are 'sort of' into it, but not really grinding' at all just kind of going with the flow. So anyways, maybe an hour later I look at the dance floor and I see that guy making out with this girl. I was soooo jealous...but like I realized that "hey if this average looking guy can do it why the hell can't I." I mean this girl didn't seem slutty at all, she looked pretty classy and hot at the same time. When I first saw this guy and his friend try to hit on them I thought no way he was getting anywhere. But he prooved me wrong, and it made me realize that no matter who you are as long as you take a chance...it's fair game. Best of luck.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Anyone can do it.
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