"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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anyone been to burningman?

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My lil bro goes every year, and says it is the best place on earth. but Im kinda skeptical, weird hippyfest in desert? He says there is this thing called naked mile or something and chicks ride by on bikes naked. He says hes never seen so many t*ts in his life.

Sounds cool, just wondering if anyone has been there, going there this year, or any tips on what to do or not do there?

They got a website i dunno what it is, try google- burningman
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Señor Fingers

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anyone been to burningman?
:wave:

It was one of the craziest experiences ever. Sure you have your usual druggy-hippie scene, but that´s not the main attraction. The best part of the whole festival are the artists and interactive installations.

One guy I saw had lined up three old-school volkswagen beatles and tricked them all out with tons of hot rod exhaust pipes, all aligned together like a church organ. He would then play notes in a MIDI keyboard and each of the pipes would play a tone accompanied by fire.

There was this other installation which was the human body. You walked into the mouth, traveled down the esophagus and that opened into the Stomach Room where there was a small bar and people just hangin out.. continue further and get lost in the maze of the intestines before shooting out the ass.

At night there were scores of people on bikes, all with huge neon fish attached to tall antennas, so it looked like you were underwater - fun stuff!

there is this thing called naked mile or something and chicks ride by on bikes naked. He says hes never seen so many t*ts in his life.
Yah that´s just the tip of the iceberg. There are actually Love Tents, which are often pink and shaped like a giant vagina. You open the lip/flaps and there you have a full on orgy.

Overall its a wild ride and unforgettable experience. Recommended!
 

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Yep. I lived in Reno, NV for 5 years and went twice. It was just north of where I lived in Stead so we'd get all kinds of characters passing through and picking up food and supplies. It was quite the cultural education for the mostly hick population when all these free spirits would congregate for a long weekend in Black Rock desert.

It's kind of gone commercial now though.
 
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