Heres the deal: Just broke up with GF. With her close to 2 years and was living with her.
I lost my job so I had to move to the city where there are more opportunities. She apparently freaked out i think and did a 180. Prior to ending it she came up with the idea from her friend she needs to do some soul searching for herself to firgure out what she wants to do when she is done with grad school and basically not have an external influence in where she should get a job. basically she hasnt been single in a long time. Im her longest and most serious bf and vice or versa.
Now weve been talkin about everday its been about a week. Weve been broken up before and she always acts like "ok well take things slow" or I dont know well see how things will go" when its been like a week. Weird. I might not call her and shell start to call
So we came to the conclusion that we see each other on the weekeneds and rotate taking care of our dog. But she says i dont want a boyfriend so I dont have to deal with anything except school then im like what the fvck is the point of seeing each other then? So tomorrow Im going to her house. The thing that drives me crazy is that in these situations girls usually have to control what happens caue they are fragile and if a man tells them something they automatically back up regardless of what is said. I was like do you want me to stay over? she said im cool with whatever = she doesnt know. I made a joke saying ill sleep on the couch. She said yea stay over.
This girl has stuff going for her has a masters degree and good looking maybe a couple lose bolts in the head though and I really dont want to toss all that time away for little problems that can be fixed. I dont like to go out to clubs and try to find someone its too much of a hassle. Any suggestions of what should be done when I see her. I do want her as my gf still but i know if i push shell back off. I know she needs me. if she didnt she wouldnt call me and she wouldnt call me back. Im thinking when I go up there just dont mention one thing about our relationship and dont touch her or try to kiss her. and dont even try to fvck her.
Last time this happened i started staying with her and didnt try to fvck or anything then she did a test and started acting like we were going to have sex and I went with the flow and when the time came to stick it in she stopped and said she didnt feel like it. Pretty funny stuff. Any other suggestions? Ill probably just wont call her first and see if she calls Or should I say something to her? I just need to knock down her stupid wall she puts up when were in these situations
I lost my job so I had to move to the city where there are more opportunities. She apparently freaked out i think and did a 180. Prior to ending it she came up with the idea from her friend she needs to do some soul searching for herself to firgure out what she wants to do when she is done with grad school and basically not have an external influence in where she should get a job. basically she hasnt been single in a long time. Im her longest and most serious bf and vice or versa.
Now weve been talkin about everday its been about a week. Weve been broken up before and she always acts like "ok well take things slow" or I dont know well see how things will go" when its been like a week. Weird. I might not call her and shell start to call
So we came to the conclusion that we see each other on the weekeneds and rotate taking care of our dog. But she says i dont want a boyfriend so I dont have to deal with anything except school then im like what the fvck is the point of seeing each other then? So tomorrow Im going to her house. The thing that drives me crazy is that in these situations girls usually have to control what happens caue they are fragile and if a man tells them something they automatically back up regardless of what is said. I was like do you want me to stay over? she said im cool with whatever = she doesnt know. I made a joke saying ill sleep on the couch. She said yea stay over.
This girl has stuff going for her has a masters degree and good looking maybe a couple lose bolts in the head though and I really dont want to toss all that time away for little problems that can be fixed. I dont like to go out to clubs and try to find someone its too much of a hassle. Any suggestions of what should be done when I see her. I do want her as my gf still but i know if i push shell back off. I know she needs me. if she didnt she wouldnt call me and she wouldnt call me back. Im thinking when I go up there just dont mention one thing about our relationship and dont touch her or try to kiss her. and dont even try to fvck her.
Last time this happened i started staying with her and didnt try to fvck or anything then she did a test and started acting like we were going to have sex and I went with the flow and when the time came to stick it in she stopped and said she didnt feel like it. Pretty funny stuff. Any other suggestions? Ill probably just wont call her first and see if she calls Or should I say something to her? I just need to knock down her stupid wall she puts up when were in these situations
