"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Anyone bartended at a nightclub or high volume bar here help me out?

Thread starter drakeisfire
Start date Dec 5, 2019

drakeisfire

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Dec 5, 2019

So I turned 27 this past November and have never worked in the service industry before.

I currently work full-time for a Fortune 500 company and make a comfortable salary but I want to bartend on the side with my free time. My job in 2020 is going to be work from home as well.

Any suggestions on how to get the shot as a guy in NYC?