Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Anyone bartended at a nightclub or high volume bar here help me out?

Thread starter drakeisfire
Start date Dec 5, 2019

drakeisfire

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Dec 5, 2019

So I turned 27 this past November and have never worked in the service industry before.

I currently work full-time for a Fortune 500 company and make a comfortable salary but I want to bartend on the side with my free time. My job in 2020 is going to be work from home as well.

Any suggestions on how to get the shot as a guy in NYC?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.