"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyone attended any bootcamp/workshop/seminar/conference ?

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Just curious !!

Anyone attended any bootcamp , seminar , conference , workshop or anything ??

I mean bootcamps that costs very much like Mystery Method , Real Social Dynamics , David DeAngelo's and these kind of things .

If u have please tell us your experience , ur review and these things .

I havent attended any of these cuz im very young . But i would really like to go out with this greatest PUA's and sarge :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've attended a Charisma Arts (Juggler) workshop. Whatcha wanna know?
 

Ever onward

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I'm not going to write you a detailed summary of everything that went down. I wrote one of those at the old Charisma Arts forum but it got erased when they switched to their new forum.

If you're looking for some in field reviews from the bootcamps, check out Charisma Arts' forum as they have an event review section and you can read about different experiences. The forum is located at: Forum.charismaarts.com

I will say that it was worth every penny. It was one of the most fun experiences I've ever had and it helped me refine my social skills so I can better relate to people in general (not just picking up women).

The only thing I regret is that my game wasn't further along before I went in. I was very inexperienced when I went so I ended up learning a lot of the beginner stuff. If I were to take a bootcamp now, I would be learning stuff at a whole new level.

So my advice to you if you ever take a workshop is get as much experience as possible before you go to it so you can learn as much as possible.

Also, be careful which workshop you go to. There are so many out there and I've heard a lot of crappy reviews of other companies. I know at Charisma Arts, they really care about their clients.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I originally posted this in a different thread
I went to a RSD workshop in San Francisco a few years ago. I didn't get very much out of it. All it basically was, was going out to bars or lounges then the instructor telling us to approach women then asking them who lies more Half the time I used one of the canned openers on a girl she told me that somebody else said the same thing to her.

The instructors didn't teach any of the students about attraction or kino. There was very little if anything about inner game. Nothing about style.

I took a bunch of notes during the classroom session but most of the info can be found online. It's funny that I have a couple of pages of notes from each instructor but I only have a paragraph from Tyler...

The instructors never did any approaches and they gave terrible feedback.
I've considered doing a Juggler workshop. I liked his books. I want to do a workshop that focus on inner game, style and day game.
 

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Maxtro said:
I originally posted this in a different thread

I've considered doing a Juggler workshop. I liked his books. I want to do a workshop that focus on inner game, style and day game.
From the little I know of PUA products, I like RSD. Some bad reviews of their services come from biased clients, it seems. Can't swear for it, though.
 
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