"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Anyone 35+ succesfully doing daytime cold approaches and pulling younger women?

Guitar_Whizz

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I'm in my mid 30s and I am a daytime direct approach devotee. I have been doing daytime approaches for nearly 15 years, and I switched to the direct approach about 9 years ago, finding it to be much more effective than indirect.

I'm not really a fan of bars or clubs (though I may go to them occassipnally), and I have no interest in meeting women online

I have been and continue to be successful with daytime direct approaches. I'm also into much younger women, and usually prefer to hook up with girls in their late teens and early to mid 20s (legal age and above, I must add).

Ironically, I approach this age group of women regularly and hardly ever get any mention of me being too old/them being too young for me (though it probably helps that I look like I'm in my mid to late 20s).

I say all this as I was just wondering if there are any other mature men here who do regular daytime cold approaches and are successful at it? And what about with much younger girls? Also, anyone here into the direct approach?

I don't think I will be giving this up anytime soon, and so far my age seems to be no barrier. Is there anyone in their 40s, 50s or older who does daytime approaches?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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