“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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anybody smoke cigarettes?

garruk

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i used to smoke a few cigarettes in high school (mainly to be cool and look hard lol). In college though, i started the habit again once my courseloads got really tough.

having a cigarette as a study break is pretty much unbeatable (aside from obvious health concerns). anyways, because of college, im pretty much a smoker now, maybe 3-5 cigs a day.


anyways, most girls i meet hate it when i smoke, but not enough for smoking to actually interfere with my game.

heres a question to fellow smokers: anybody ever have their game hindered by a girl's dislike for smoking? and is it acutally a hindrance? i;ve actually read some DJ's material before about how smoking acutally helps game because it shows a disconcern for the mainstream. while i dont know if i believe that im just wondereing what fellow smokers think about it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nope. If they don't like it. Just don't smoke around them. If you like doing it then do your thing. I smoke all the time. But I do know they hate the smell so I clean up if I know I'm gonna be seeing some chick I'm gaming. For the most part though. Smoke up Johnny!
 

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garruk said:
i used to smoke a few cigarettes in high school (mainly to be cool and look hard lol). In college though, i started the habit again once my courseloads got really tough.
I started when I was twelve, just a pack here and there. But when I turned fourteen I started in earnest.

having a cigarette as a study break is pretty much unbeatable (aside from obvious health concerns). anyways, because of college, im pretty much a smoker now, maybe 3-5 cigs a day.
Wow, try a pack a day for about four years and then escalate to two packs for three years. I'd love to smoke 3-5 ciragettes a day. At this point you are a sampler, not a smoker. When you can't even make it less than an hour before becoming a catty SOB then tell me you are a smoker.

anyways, most girls i meet hate it when i smoke, but not enough for smoking to actually interfere with my game.
When you spend a ton of time in smoking sections most of the girls you meet are actually glad that you smoke (so they can steal your god damn cigs). Of course though I have met the occational girl who absolutely hates it. That is uncommon though, just because they hassle you doesn't mean they hate it. If they do try and talk down you have two options: not smoke around them, or tell them you smoking is just the price of admission to hanging around you.

heres a question to fellow smokers: anybody ever have their game hindered by a girl's dislike for smoking? and is it acutally a hindrance? i;ve actually read some DJ's material before about how smoking acutally helps game because it shows a disconcern for the mainstream. while i dont know if i believe that im just wondereing what fellow smokers think about it.
aside from the rare girl who always has to break down and tell me that her dad/mother/uncle/grandpa/whatever died from smoking and that she'll never be with a smoker because she can't go through the pain of ... blah blah blah, no it hasn't hurt my game much. Infact I use it as a litmus test if the girl says something along the lines of, "I hate smokers" yet she's going out of her way to spend time with me she obviously likes me. Seriously though, don't worry much about it; the only problem I can forsee is: expect it to come up quite a bit if you get seriously involved with a non-smoker. But it has never actually escalated into ultimatums for me yet, as in, no girl has ever told me, "Quit smoking or I'll break up with you".

Oh, one last thing, non-smokers will be less inclined to kiss you, I have found. Which actually is a plus for me because I get sick everytime I kiss a girl because I apparently have the immune system of a prenatal AIDS baby.
 

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It doesn't really effect your game besides some easy openers and I guess it makes you look kinda badass doing it with a fvck the world attitude. No girl has ever broken up with me for it, no matter how uptight they are.

It bad when I go to china haha, it's like the 60's there. Everyone smoking everywhere, though i gotta admit it's fvckin awesome to smoke right after you eat without having to go outside.

but remember kids, there's nothing cool about lung cancer ;) I'm down to one or two a day.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chickfight said:
It doesn't really effect your game besides some easy openers and I guess it makes you look kinda badass doing it with a fvck the world attitude. No girl has ever broken up with me for it, no matter how uptight they are.

It bad when I go to china haha, it's like the 60's there. Everyone smoking everywhere, though i gotta admit it's fvckin awesome to smoke right after you eat without having to go outside.

but remember kids, there's nothing cool about lung cancer ;) I'm down to one or two a day.
lol yeah ive been to china before and i love it too.

just having a cigarette wherever you damm well please is somehow so gratifying.

have you been vegas? its kinda the same, you can smoke in a lot of places you normally cant in other states.

nothing like playing craps and drinking beer with a cigarette in hang.
 

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I am in Canada, its f$cked up in here- you cant smoke anywhere in public, not at bus stop, entire airport is smoke-free, you cant smoke in front an entrance or you may get fined. I ve been smoking for 13 years and the smokes are $10 a pack, and only 2 in 10 are smokers over here. The non-smoking majority seems to have hatred for smokers.....they hate the smell.... they hate everything about, so smoking is considered anti-social. I personally thing its masculine and sexy, and actually do like women who enjoy cigarettes- they get bonus points from me! The thing is that I have to hide the fact that I smoke a lot, or otherwise I put out an unhealthy image out there and believe me or not it does turn some stupid broads off.
 

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Hah...I'm a smoker too...but one thing that beats a cigaretty any day is lifting wights. Trust me on this. Witght lifting makes you feel better about yourself physically and psychologically, while a cigarette just does not, and never will be able to achieve this kind of long lasting "buzz". Trust me bro, I'd know!
 

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Yeah, but sadly I love a siggy after a good work out.
 

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I smokes the green and the gars. The chicks I've been with this year never complained about it and those that rejected me never brought it up as a reason/excuse for rejection. Overall, I'd say it DOES help your game for the reasons stated above.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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