"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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anybody smoke cigarettes?

garruk

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i used to smoke a few cigarettes in high school (mainly to be cool and look hard lol). In college though, i started the habit again once my courseloads got really tough.

having a cigarette as a study break is pretty much unbeatable (aside from obvious health concerns). anyways, because of college, im pretty much a smoker now, maybe 3-5 cigs a day.


anyways, most girls i meet hate it when i smoke, but not enough for smoking to actually interfere with my game.

heres a question to fellow smokers: anybody ever have their game hindered by a girl's dislike for smoking? and is it acutally a hindrance? i;ve actually read some DJ's material before about how smoking acutally helps game because it shows a disconcern for the mainstream. while i dont know if i believe that im just wondereing what fellow smokers think about it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Some Call Me Tim

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Smewking

Not a fellow smoker, but I thought i'd offer you some advice. In my experience the chicks that smoke are scene kids of various persuasions (emos, goths, punks) or intellectual artsy types who as you quite rightly point out are looking for ways to raise a middle finger to the system. Artists, indie music fans, existentialists.

If any of the above are your scene, then go right ahead! If you're more of a sporty guy or not really into any of the above, the sorts of girls you want to attract won't be into the smoking.

Be careful though, you'd be surprised how fast 5 cigs become 20, and then half a pack and so on. Nothing attractive about chronic disease, but im not telling you anything you don't already know.

Good luck anyway :rockon:
 

Cry For Love

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if you gonna smoke do it like a man, shove it up ur ass and let your rectum skin absorb the nicotine. this way no lung problems and tasty warm farts. Kinky Girls love it
 

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If a chick is turned off by your smoking, mildy mention that you would "quit for the right reasons if it came to that." You didn't say you'd quit for her or any other woman, but she will think you did. If she's around long enough to think you would quit for her you can tell her you meant if you ever had kids or some other excuse. I do know this though, it's extremely hard to pick up women in the library before finals when you have a dip in...
 
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