"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anybody know of a great place for a singles vacation?

theunflushables

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I'm thinking about saving up some money for a vacation next winter. Somewhere tropical and warm for a week. I was wondering if anybody knew if there was somewhere specific that is geared for young single people? Yeah, I know there is spring break in Cancun and all that, but I was thinking something a little more laid back, my college drinking days are done. I did take a look online at Hedonism, but it looks like thats for old burnt out swingers. Anybody know of somewhere else where I won't be surrounded by kids, grannies, and newlyweds?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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horaholic

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How about Costa Rica?
 

speakeasy

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Unless it's some college spring break type of place, I don't think there's anywhere that's "geared" specifically for singles. Of course you can find single people anywhere. Sometimes other travelers, sometimes locals. If you have game, use it just like you would at home. Just hang in areas with bars and nightlife and you'll find single ladies to mack it up on. As long as you avoid overtly couples-oriented places like Venice, Italy you should be okay.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Truman181

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How about Belgrade? I've heard from so many PUA's, including Style in The Game, that the place is crawling with gorgeous women.

Any other Eastern European country like that might be worth a look....
 

Hooligan Harry

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Brazil or Colombia

If you can learn a little Portuguese or Spanish before you go, you wont want to even come home :)
 

theunflushables

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Excellent ideas. I'd have to rule out Bangkok and Phuket though. I get a week's vacation this year so I'd spend about 4 days of that flying. Colombia sounds fun if I don't get kidnapped by drug lords.

Has anyone been to those all inclusive resorts? Is it worth just for the booze and free golf?
 

speakeasy

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Does it have to be international? If you spend a week in Miami Beach and have some game, you should be able to get some ass no problem.
 

theunflushables

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speakeasy said:
Does it have to be international? If you spend a week in Miami Beach and have some game, you should be able to get some ass no problem.
No, it doesn't have to be international, just tropical and warm during the winter months. And while getting tail on vacation is always fun, I'm more concerned that I don't end up in some retirement resort or surrounded my families with their snot not nosed kids screaming and crying.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Miami beach is the hardest place on earth to sarge!!!.. I know, I live there. You have to have money and looks there!...
 

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Viking25 said:
Miami beach is the hardest place on earth to sarge!!!.. I know, I live there. You have to have money and looks there!...
That's what I heard. Lots of good looking girls but hard to pick up and expensive there. I never been there though. Well if you want to go some place that's warm when it's winter here and is also good for girls, it looks like Brazil is it. I haven't been there yet, but that's where I'd go for a tropical winter vacation.
 

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If you're a white guy/gringo then Latin America would probably be great. Latin women love white guys, even dorky ones.
 
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