"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anybody know of a great place for a singles vacation?

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I'm thinking about saving up some money for a vacation next winter. Somewhere tropical and warm for a week. I was wondering if anybody knew if there was somewhere specific that is geared for young single people? Yeah, I know there is spring break in Cancun and all that, but I was thinking something a little more laid back, my college drinking days are done. I did take a look online at Hedonism, but it looks like thats for old burnt out swingers. Anybody know of somewhere else where I won't be surrounded by kids, grannies, and newlyweds?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How about Costa Rica?
 
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Unless it's some college spring break type of place, I don't think there's anywhere that's "geared" specifically for singles. Of course you can find single people anywhere. Sometimes other travelers, sometimes locals. If you have game, use it just like you would at home. Just hang in areas with bars and nightlife and you'll find single ladies to mack it up on. As long as you avoid overtly couples-oriented places like Venice, Italy you should be okay.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How about Belgrade? I've heard from so many PUA's, including Style in The Game, that the place is crawling with gorgeous women.

Any other Eastern European country like that might be worth a look....
 
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Brazil or Colombia

If you can learn a little Portuguese or Spanish before you go, you wont want to even come home :)
 
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Excellent ideas. I'd have to rule out Bangkok and Phuket though. I get a week's vacation this year so I'd spend about 4 days of that flying. Colombia sounds fun if I don't get kidnapped by drug lords.

Has anyone been to those all inclusive resorts? Is it worth just for the booze and free golf?
 
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Does it have to be international? If you spend a week in Miami Beach and have some game, you should be able to get some ass no problem.
 
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speakeasy said:
Does it have to be international? If you spend a week in Miami Beach and have some game, you should be able to get some ass no problem.
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No, it doesn't have to be international, just tropical and warm during the winter months. And while getting tail on vacation is always fun, I'm more concerned that I don't end up in some retirement resort or surrounded my families with their snot not nosed kids screaming and crying.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Miami beach is the hardest place on earth to sarge!!!.. I know, I live there. You have to have money and looks there!...
 
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Viking25 said:
Miami beach is the hardest place on earth to sarge!!!.. I know, I live there. You have to have money and looks there!...
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That's what I heard. Lots of good looking girls but hard to pick up and expensive there. I never been there though. Well if you want to go some place that's warm when it's winter here and is also good for girls, it looks like Brazil is it. I haven't been there yet, but that's where I'd go for a tropical winter vacation.
 
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If you're a white guy/gringo then Latin America would probably be great. Latin women love white guys, even dorky ones.
 
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