"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Anybody here see Blind Date on Monday night?

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This average looking guy got set up with a hot lingerie football girl. He said there was no way he would get her by being nice so he hit her with neg hits. He asked her if she used to be blond, he said he liked her earrings because they were sleazy and after knowing her for 5 minutes said he would never do a blind dtae again. She was really irritated as the date went on, her body language said she wasn't interested but then he said he does that stuff just to test girls to see if they are worthy. What does she do? Makes out with him and says she can't wait to see him again.

It was interesting to see:)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by theSpeculator
I bet he was using some don juan and/or msaf materials he read.

But, In my opinion, his skills was weak and the chick was dumb.
Yeah obviously the chick was dumb. You would have to be dumb to fall for a guy just because he insults you but how were his skills weak? He knew what he was doing and he didn't panic and apologize to her when she was offended and annoyed.
 

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Typical Low Self -Esteem chick, the kind that ends up with some dirtbag who cheats on her and beats on her, and she keeps coming back for more.

"But he loves me!"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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