"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anybody here ever pick up any of the super hot woman at the gym

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There was a black/mixed black woman today at my gym that was obscenely attractive. Pretty face, tiny waist, nice super fit ass and legs, great skin tone. I was trying to think of some way to start a conversation but everything in my head came out ridiculously awkward


Have any of you guys ever succeeded at it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There was a black/mixed black woman today at my gym that was obscenely attractive. Pretty face, tiny waist, nice super fit ass and legs, great skin tone. I was trying to think of some way to start a conversation but everything in my head came out ridiculously awkward


Have any of you guys ever succeeded at it?
Headphones or no headphones?
 

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If you have a THIRST mindset the universe will reward you with situations that keep you THIRSTY.

Stop ho3 chasing . Females choose.

Your basically a state of mind away from your goals.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This is a legit question. Gym game is tough because you have to both time it in between the person's set and inconvenience them by making them take off their headphones. Thus the rejection tends to be more brutal. As always, if you dont care about their opinion of you (and you shouldnt), go for it anyway.
 

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I'm sure even the most successful players will say the gym is not the ideal environment. In the workout area, people are getting their thing done. Yoga and other classes does provide a opportunity to get familiar and lightly socialize. Personally I wouldn't waste anyone time who wasn't feeling me first . It's going to be "but she's so HAWT" like player supreme jokes. You need them feeling that way about you instead.
 
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Just work out upper body all the time, make sure your biceps are swole, and then Grab them by the P***sy
 

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Nah but in all seriousness, gym game is hard. Wait until she makes eye contact first, then smile naturally and strike up a conversation. Do not approach a girl doing her sets with headphones unless you're hella jacked and got enough confidence to pull it off.
 

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Because gyms are so heavily male - notice the proliferation of women's only gyms, like the one George Soldini shot up, as women don't like to be doing those leg curls with horny men watching - pickup game there is about the hardest thing around.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Have any of you guys ever succeeded at it?
Yeah. Been at pickup for 7yrs. Not nearly as good as it sounds. Life, career, business, relations etc. The patterns and sequence of events are pretty redundant. You see when to push, pull or next a girl. 99%, I go with the latter approach since, it's always better to next set then attempt to rekindle attraction or fix what's broken.

Gym gane: chat up everyone starting from the beginning you walk in. Girls at the front desk. Be that social fella. Obviously, go lift. The gym is a social hierarchy. Group classes are money. Tons of baes.

There's a direct way to approach and a indirect. I've always had better success with indirect. Going in enthusiastic, high energy, maximizing what little time you have. Give her the gift of your time I. Micro doses. As in, a minute or two tops. Go lift. Think Alex 4x rules. See again. Re approach. If she's a ****, offers nothing of substance, let her expire.

Acquire top form Smv or next set. You want free thinker. Not feminist, sjw or victim hood. If she's interested, very little help is needed.

APPROACH, BREAK RAPPORT, BACK TURN, GO LIFT. SEE AGAIN, RE APPROACH, BUILD RAPPORT. WHAT IS IT THAT YOU DO? EMBED IT IN YOUR INTERACTION. STACK. WASH RINSE REPEAT. AFTER YOU'VE ACQUIRED ATTRACTION, WHAT ARE YOU DOING? TELL HER. ACQUIRE DIGITS. GO BALLS DEEP! #NEXTSET!
 

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Because gyms are so heavily male - notice the proliferation of women's only gyms, like the one George Soldini shot up, as women don't like to be doing those leg curls with horny men watching - pickup game there is about the hardest thing around.
No the wear stretchy pants several sizes too small with shirt tucked into pants to show off her declining assets.
 

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I know a chick who sounds like that at my local lifetime. She’s hella hot. I caught her checking me out when I was in high school and haven’t seen her in ages until a couple of weeks ago. She was putting herself around me I think but I’ve had a cougar do that too when I was too focused on my workout to really notice her, then when I did she talked hella **** about me to some of the older men how I want her (even though I was like 16 or 17 and she was probably in her mid-late 50s lol). After that I just ignore bitches. Unless they walk by and I’m resting, then I stare very blatantly. They know what I want. None of them actually dos hit though, they just like to tease and feel like they got power over guys. That’s why I never approach bitches in the gym. Why? Because they’re just that—bitches.
 
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