"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anybody here ever been busted for posting here?

Fatality

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I was wondering if anybody here has ever posted a relationship problem here or a story about their experiences and the girl that you had a relationship or experience with just so happened to be one of the girls that browse this site to see what men are saying about women. Anybody here ever get questioned by a girl for posting here?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rgeere

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I was caught by a girl I was seeing once, but fortunatelly she only found printout copies I had made for some offline reading and didn' know they were mine, so I jokingly accused her of trying to pick-up girls then changed the subject.

Her: *Looking at printout material*
Me: *walking in* Woah! you arn't trying to learn how to pick-up girls now, are you?
Her: No, whose are these?
Me: I don't know, let's say me and you go do something fun..

HAHA ... Worked like a charm ..
 

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Originally posted by Fatality
I was wondering if anybody here has ever posted a relationship problem here or a story about their experiences and the girl that you had a relationship or experience with just so happened to be one of the girls that browse this site to see what men are saying about women. Anybody here ever get questioned by a girl for posting here?
As a man and double if you're grown get that idea of getting "busted" out of your head and vocabulary. Remember "words create universes", so things like this can affect you a lot more then you think.

Being grown you can do whatever the hell you want, and if you are not grown the only one with power over you is your parents. For all you cats if you "hiding" things (porn movies/mags, the fact that you are on this site ect) stop it!!!!
 

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SoSuave Population: 15,070
Rough Estimate of females registered: ~3%
US Population: 295,587,797

You do the math. I'll stick with playing the powerball... the odds are much better.
 

Fatality

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Re: Re: Anybody here ever been busted for posting here?

Originally posted by Royal Elite
As a man and double if you're grown get that idea of getting "busted" out of your head and vocabulary. Remember "words create universes", so things like this can affect you a lot more then you think.

Being grown you can do whatever the hell you want, and if you are not grown the only one with power over you is your parents. For all you cats if you "hiding" things (porn movies/mags, the fact that you are on this site ect) stop it!!!!
Just a simple question man, it's not something that I actually worried about.

diablo - alot of people view the site and aren't registered.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Engetsu

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Re: Re: Re: Anybody here ever been busted for posting here?

Originally posted by Fatality
diablo - alot of people view the site and aren't registered.
This is pretty off-topic, but every time I read a comment like this I feel dumb for not coming up with it before scrolling down...

I admit getting busted would be pretty awkward, but it wouldn't be hard situation to get out of... The fact that you're on this site just means that you hold the relationship dear to you, and you wouldn't want to mess it up by doing anything wrong. If it ever happens that's what I would say.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Anybody here ever been busted for posting here?

Originally posted by Fatality
diablo - alot of people view the site and aren't registered.
True, and a lot of the ones registered are multiple accounts. I suppose the only way to know for sure would be to pull the website logs and find the number of unique IP's that have visited - even that wouldn't be definitive. Point is, the odds are worse than miniscule that a girl will just "happen" to be poking around on the internet, "happen" to find a site devoted to picking up girls (better odds if she's bi-sexual), "happen" to read through random posts until she just "happens" to find one that "happens" to have her name and the descriptiveness that would let her know it was her that the thread was about.

The odds that a girl gets on your computer while you're down watching TV or doing something else, goes to your favorites or internet history, and finds this site is a whole different ballgame.
 

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who gives a sh!t?!?

Busted? err... if i post about a girl, i'll go and give her the link to the bloody post for all i acre.. if she has a problem with me posting about her, then she can go f*ck herself! I have NO shame in posting about gilrs in here, and i have nothing to hide! I dont lie on these forums, and if a girl reads something that i said about her that she doesnt like, she will just have to deal with it, and if she doesnt like it, she can f*ckoff! Simple as that! I'm not scared etc of girls finding out about me posting about them here, who are they to be scared of? they are girls, BIG WOW, i have nothing to hide, i am an open person, so either they accept me as i am, AND with what i think about them, of they can get the f*ck out of my face! There are many women out there up for grabs, so if a few dont like me or dont liike something about me, or something that i said about them, then VAMOOS B!TCHES! erfff.. ok.. i gotta go get some work done...


laterz... :cool:
 

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honestly if bishop/diablo hasn't been caught for posting pics of every half-naked hb9 that has crossed his line of sight (haha just f*ckin with you bro), i think the rest of us are pretty safe.

The odds that a girl gets on your computer while you're down watching TV or doing something else, goes to your favorites or internet history, and finds this site is a whole different ballgame.
That's exactly how people get caught.
 
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