Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah same, I got no response. Was looking forward to goingNot sure if I can attend now due the meetups going private and me not having an account on the ROK forum. I sent an email anyway.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I don't think there's any realistic way to actually completely shut down these events. As mentioned above some hosts are going forward anyways and a lot of them were privatized before the event was formally cancelled.Thwarted by the powers that be. ROK Metup has been cancelled -http://www.rooshv.com/announcement-the-meetup-on-february-6-is-cancelled
I enjoyed this video, and it was funny how he was making fun of the "Boom Clap" girl, but you can see that Roosh brings a lot of this stuff on himself. He even said in the video basically that even bad publicity is good publicity. For instance, he tells the girl to shut up because "The men are talking". Lol, that's the same line Andy Kaufman used to use to wind up the feminists when he was doing his "bad guy wrestler/wrestling women" bit. I'm sure it's intentional. The more outrage he can stir up, the more publicity he gets.
Dammit. This would have been a great way to make local non-AFC friends.Even if the events are cancelled, the manosphere got a massive burst of free advertisement = more men waking up and seeing there is another path in life
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Thanks for sharing the video. It was interesting.I enjoyed this video, and it was funny how he was making fun of the "Boom Clap" girl, but you can see that Roosh brings a lot of this stuff on himself. He even said in the video basically that even bad publicity is good publicity. For instance, he tells the girl to shut up because "The men are talking". Lol, that's the same line Andy Kaufman used to use to wind up the feminists when he was doing his "bad guy wrestler/wrestling women" bit. I'm sure it's intentional. The more outrage he can stir up, the more publicity he gets.