"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anybody ever have their boss hit on them?

ksmith798

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So I started this new job almost 2 months ago and I work in recieving. One of my bosses is 35 and she's alright looking for being older(I'm 20). I've noticed her flirting with me quite a bit lately. The other day when I was at the computer she came up and started rubbing my shoulders when she was asking me something. Then later i was moving something and it was a pain in the ass so i had to kind of jerk it real hard, there were a few other people around and she said something like "Man he's rough, the girls must love him in bed." Things like that.

My buddy that got me the job said he knows she was f***ing one other guy that used to work there and he thinks another guy that was my age. The thing is she's married and has two kids lol. I would have to guess her and her husband have an open relationship or something. She's really cool and she doesn't seem like a sl*t. I think it would be awesome to sleep with your boss lol, but I've also been trying to go to church more and be closer to God than I have been in the past few years.. that's why I can't decide if I should go for it or not with her being married cause I know that's totally wrong but how awesome would it be to say you f***ed your boss?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Warrior74

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Awsome? Are you an idiot? Once you screw her you are completely her bytch. Leave that woman alone man. I'd rather get fired for sticking to my guns than to be some woman's boytoy and power play fantasy. "Oooh look at me, I'm just like a man, sleeping with my subordinates" I promise you that's how it goes down in her head. In a dance two cannot lead, she will be leading this dance and leading you in every aspect of your life. Your personal life will disappear and forget about any other women, let her get a hint of other women and you will probably loose your job. How did the other guy lose his job? Or did he quit to get out of a bad situation? Use your pimp brain here and THINK dammit. Ask questions and find out what's up! If this is your career don't screw it up.
 

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I've done it, and I look at it as a mistake. It's not as bad as Warrior said, but it's also not worth it.

I broke things off with my boss after I moved on, but she hasn't. She's c*ckblocked me a few times at work, but nothing major. The real problem is that she has input into whether I get promotions or not, and she gets called when I apply somewhere else. I highly doubt she will try and screw me over, but I don't like being in a position where that's possible.

Don't do it. There are PLENTY of other women out there.
 

ksmith798

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Warrior74 said:
Awsome? Are you an idiot? Once you screw her you are completely her bytch. Leave that woman alone man. I'd rather get fired for sticking to my guns than to be some woman's boytoy and power play fantasy. "Oooh look at me, I'm just like a man, sleeping with my subordinates" I promise you that's how it goes down in her head. In a dance two cannot lead, she will be leading this dance and leading you in every aspect of your life. Your personal life will disappear and forget about any other women, let her get a hint of other women and you will probably loose your job. How did the other guy lose his job? Or did he quit to get out of a bad situation? Use your pimp brain here and THINK dammit. Ask questions and find out what's up! If this is your career don't screw it up.
No, it's not my career. I'm in college, it's just a part-time thing, and I'm not sure why the other guy quit or got fired, my buddy didn't tell me.
 

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Well that would be adultery. It would also be stupid considering it's the workplace and she's your boss.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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