"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anybody ever have a girl like this?

Immaculate

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Anybody ever have a girl that's a HB8-9 when she puts her make up on and does her hair, but without all that she like a HB5? Would you keep this kinda girl around?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ4Real

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No, and Yes. You don't become shallow when you find out a woman isn't this super beautiful model chick.
 

brenbaus

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yes and yes, even if shes not super hot all the time, keep her around
 

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Tell her she can remove her makeup after you have sex.:cool:
 

Immaculate

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yeah I'm keeping her around... she is crazy about me but I have no feelings for her... I have no feelings for any girl anymore. I'm like a concrete wall when it comes to girls these days. I just don't get feelings for them. Myabe one day I'll meet one that will bring out those emotions but it hasn't happened thrugh several relationships...I just like the company of women though .. it beats sitting around by yourself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Immaculate
Anybody ever have a girl that's a HB8-9 when she puts her make up on and does her hair, but without all that she like a HB5? Would you keep this kinda girl around?

LOL...that's like 80% of the girls out there bro. They put on their "face" for 2 hours every morning and then go out and all the guys are like "Damn, I want a piece of that." Then you fuvk that byatch eventually and wake up in the morning and look over and you nearly shiat your pants because you see all the imperfections (acne, birthmarks, scars) but yeah definitely keep the broad around especially if you don't give a fuvk anyway.



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DC? Yeah whats happening my nigg. I say keep her, I mean most of the fine chicks you seein outside are exactly like this female you mentioning above.
 
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