"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anybody ever come up with their own pattrens? Or would you be interested?

Ashlee Angel

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In my quest to be a male wh0re I have had a knack with coming up with ghetto a$$ pattrens on the spot to bed women. I have been using my own pattrens before I ever read about them. I was wondering if any of you guys use your own pattrens or would like to start coming up with some. If we started to really think about it I bet we all could come up with some really good ones. So if anybody wants to join me post and tell me what's up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Vronski

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The best way is not to use canned patterns, cause they get interrupted and its easy to screw up. Just take the info which she gives you and use it, maintain a convo without steering away from the topic and pack your speech with embedded commands.
 
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