"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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anybody else in here get a lot of love from redheads?

HowardHughesDicaprio

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I don't get why it is but whenever I have been out to a party or an event and approached a ginger it has always ended well. Just ****ed one this past Friday night and have a date with another one today. Hate to generalize but they seem a lot more open with their sexuality when they are with you in private than other kinds of girls I have been with and give me all sorts of IOIs. Anyone else in here get a lot of love and positive reception from redheads?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not in general, no. But i did bang a redhead off tinder like 2 hrs after meeting her. She was a freak, best head i've ever gotten in my life.
 

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Are you guys talking about natural or dyed? Women who dye their hair red are fun- it's a colour they put there to grab attention, whether they like it or not. They're putting themselves on the back foot by making it obvious that they're seeking attention.
 

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Redheads get a lot of male attention from early on, because true redheads are rare. That's why a lot of redheads tend to be attention hos or straight up slvts. As you guys have said, redheads tend to be flirty and sexually open, moreso than the average girl. I'm very attracted to redheads physically, but unfortunately I haven't found one with the personality suitable for a LTR.
 

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I don't think redheads get much attention at all IMO. Think it might have to do with the way I look too because I have that Mediterranean type of appearance (middle eastern guy here) and a lot of people tell me redheads love those latin, exotic, swarthy, and foreign types. They also seem to be a lot more open minded than brunettes or blondes because I have seen just about every race of guys out there with a cute redhead. Starting to see more and more asian and indian dudes with them too so for the oriental AFCs, this might be your golden ticket for white ***** lol!

Certainly not complaining though because redheads are amazing in bed, gonna try to approach some more to see whats up.

zekko said:
Redheads get a lot of male attention from early on, because true redheads are rare. That's why a lot of redheads tend to be attention hos or straight up slvts. As you guys have said, redheads tend to be flirty and sexually open, moreso than the average girl. I'm very attracted to redheads physically, but unfortunately I haven't found one with the personality suitable for a LTR.

I find this to be true of blondes not redheads.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah my ex is a redhead. She was a virgin when I met her and she wants to get back with me. She was red down there and moreso blondish up top most days, sometimes red hair on her head. She wants to get back with me LMFAO! The ex before her is blonde but dyed it red to turn me on. I really prefer blondes the most.
 

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bmxcetera said:
Yeah my ex is a redhead. She was a virgin when I met her and she wants to get back with me. She was red down there and moreso blondish up top most days, sometimes red hair on her head. She wants to get back with me LMFAO! The ex before her is blonde but dyed it red to turn me on. I really prefer blondes the most.
I have no preference but a tanned brunette would be my favorite of them all. TBH I find a lot of blondes especially the ones you find at bars and clubs to be stuck up and full of themselves, usually also rude and kunts to anyone that is not a part of their circle. Have had much better experiences with the European ones who are more natural but the American ones are total attention *****s with a thirst for validation and will treat most guys like ****. Guess its because they get approached quite a lot.
 
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