Anybody Else Having This Issue?

[Tenacity]

As you guys know I incorporate A LOT of online dating into my "plate acquiring" activities, but have you guys who use (or used) online dating ran into this issue?

So the chick is responding heavily online, I'm doing my usual flirting and routine, I quickly get her number which really is a process of giving her MY number to have her text me FIRST. I do this to confirm interest.

The girl texts, no problem. We text back and forth, and some of them I'm able to do an actual phone convo with, some I'm NOT . Some just flat out disappear after they send me their telephone number. When I say disappear, I mean literally DISAPPEAR.

I don't understand this, what is the point of giving your number to meet up, fvck, or do whatever, and just fvcking disappear like that? This has been a recurring pattern with a number of chicks, it hasn't just been one or two, it's been a recurring pattern with a lot of them...especially from POF.

I think in the last week, I got 6 numbers from chicks and they all DISAPPEARED after the first day of texting with NO telephone convo, no meet up, no nothing! And there's nothing I could have said or did to turn the people off lol, I'm the same person, same personality, same everything.

Anybody else experience or experienced this, do you think you know what it might be in relation to?

 

[Tictac]

I use OLD. My work and private life isn't conducive to meeting women.

Sure, stuff like that happens all the time. Not enough so I'm going 'WTF" but enough to note. Sounds like you hit a bad patch.

Chalk it up to the anonymity of the net and women not knowing what the hell they want.

Eflaking

 

[Young OG]

If your doing the same as before, its probably just dry spell your having right now. The women probably found a guy they are more interested online.

 

[channingtatum]

Dude..you're putting in way too much work. I primarily use online game to get new plates. I keep it simple. Have an awesome profile (girl's read them) and I exchange no more than 3 messages. On the 3rd message (this includes my opener of something like "Hey, it sounds like we might have a lot in common. How's your week going?") I ask for her number saying I intend to text her the following day to schedule to get together (if i get her number that morning, I'll usually text later that day). They key is to get them into real life ASAP. They can live virtually forever with you. I text them for a few mins, then propose a date. I've tracked this stuff..if she's not going to give you her number by the 3rd message, she never will. If she flakes via text, she'll flake even if you talk to her for hours on the phone.