"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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any way to prevent masturbation?

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Nexxus

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I hate masturbating but I still end up doing it... I'll go for about a week without mastrbating but then I get this ****ing urge to just rub my **** and I can't stop myself from there, it's ****ing pissing off and I really need to stop...

I'm not listening to the people who are gonna say... "be comfy with your sexuality" or "dude!!!! I masturbate 24/7 and so shud UUU!!!", I have my own reasons for why I hate masturbating i'm sure some of you love masturbating but if there's anyone out there who never masturbates... then help me and tell me how you stopped because honestly I get pissed off everytime I masturbate and it's like I can't friggin help it...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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cut your **** with a knife (not all of it!!!) just so you get some scars, that way when you try to jackoff it will hurt and you wont be able to.
 

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Is this a serious post?

LOL

Stop looking at porn

Socialize...with women...get a hobby or something.
 

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it's really just a bad habit. you can kick it. You have to get rid of all the triggers, like online porn, all that. The hardest part is like the first week to ten days then it gets easier because you get the great results and just want to keep them going. Focus on how great you feel when you don't and use that to motivate you to quit. I think it's great that you are trying. good luck.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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