Any tips to last longer in bed?

[Brighty]

I've just started having sex and I've only had sex around four times (two times that really count because I was sober) so it may just be the intital excitement of the act, but I'm finding that I'm having a hard time lasting that long or long at all for that matter. The first two times we had sex when we were sober I lasted a while because I kind of played along with her "forcing" me to have sex with her (e.g. being reluctant) and the sex was great, but last night when I took the lead I found myself having to bust a nut in under a minute (then again, I had to pee really bad beforehand, I don't know if that has anything to do with it).

Anyway, what are some tips for lasting longer in bed? Masturbate more? I don't really jack it that much, no real need to in college.

 

[Allurre]

Don't think of yourself having "SEX" on the spot.

Think of yourself playing golf, shooting hoops.

Train your mind, and your body will be affected.

Think of a turtle staring into your eyes while you're busy thrusting.

Let me know how it goes.

 

[War Against Betaism]

Having to pee definitely plays a part in nutting faster. Make sure you piss before you have sex. And when people have sex, their body tenses up and all of that force will make them want to nut faster. Make sure to BREATHE; people often forget to do this. People are breathing heavily like they're playing football or pumping iron.

 

[blinkwatt101]

Have sex. Tons of it.

I started sleeping with my neighbor 2 weeks ago,since then just about once or twice a day she comes over to 'visit'. Only last 5 minutes the first couple of day...then 15 minutes after a few more days.....2 days ago...1 hour...and now I control when I finish.

Jerking it has no effect for me. Peeing? Not even in the question for me. Just something you have to condition yourself to do in my opinion. I will tell you this though,anything over 30 minutes and I can barely walk after,it's a freaking workout! I breath like I just got off the darn treadmill running for 20 minutes straight.

 

[brokenupinside]

OK,I'm going to tell you what I have been doing for years and it works,I was never a premature ejaculator by any standard but I was doing the 15 minutes and out thing,when I find that even if you put a good half hour of foreplay women are just warming up (disregard all this for quickies).

Before I broke up, i was clocking at about an hour and up.
After breakup and with my new GF whom I see once (sometimes twice)a week for a whole day marathon I last all day without having a single orgasm untill I decide to.
How do I do it?
First of all,even if you are in a relationship,whack it daily,nobody gets enough poon that they cant do one a day and make it last,which will train you to last longer,of course adjust this once a day rule to fit your libido.

Do not try to not think about sex or what you are doing,WRONG!!!!!!,it's like people that went to woodstock,what good was it to be there if you dont remember or did not experience it fully.
DO THINK about everything that you do to her,enjoy it and be AWARE of how you feel so you are in control.STOP when you know you are going to get the urge,dont go past the point of no return(it has happened to me a couple of times).
What you wnat to do is barely ejaculate BUT without an orgasm.
When you thing you cannot take it any longer talk to her and get distracted(yes talk dirty or ask if she likes what you are doing)it will take your mind off orgasm for a second or two and give you a second wind.
Control her moves by starting and stoping,teasing(in the meantie you are controlling your urge and building her anticipation).
Change poses,take the lead,you have control.
If you practice this you will master your ejac and last as long as you want
Good luck
brokenupinside

 

[Brighty]

Thanks for the tips guys.

Are you sure that you should wack it daily though? That seems like you'd be subconsciously training yourself to orgasm sooner.

Also, is there a guide to preforming kegals?

 

[brokenupinside]

You will train to ejac soon only if you orgasm soon,delay it (this is training,not the rest of your life)as long as you can...when you feel that you are going to go ....stop,wait till the urge stops and start again and so on.
Before you know it you have mastered your orgasm and therefore ...hers and if you last long she'll have many trust me.
If you are using a condom is easier to last longer but you should be able to so it regardless.
Never did a kegal in my life but girls do to tighten their ginas.

 

[Brighty]

Bah, we just had sex again and she blew me really fvcking good and didnt finish me so I nutted in like a minute, oh well. Everyone has to start somewhere I guess. We're going to go fvck again in a few. I think I'm starting to psyche myself out about the whole thing though, which is a bummer. I was thinking about popping a viagra or something that will make me last longer just so I know in my mind that I can so I dont' stress myself out about it. She's on birth control so I dont use a condom, which may be part of the problem.

 

[women haze]

Bah, we just had sex again and she blew me really fvcking good and didnt finish me so I nutted in like a minute, oh well. Everyone has to start somewhere I guess. We're going to go fvck again in a few. I think I'm starting to psyche myself out about the whole thing though, which is a bummer. I was thinking about popping a viagra or something that will make me last longer just so I know in my mind that I can so I dont' stress myself out about it. She's on birth control so I dont use a condom, which may be part of the problem.

Be careful about ****in without a condom man......I was almost messed up doing that.

 

[Desert Rose]

vicodin

 

[Brighty]

I heard that prozac also helps for lasting longer, I could easily get some, would this be a good idea? I also heard viagra and red bull make you a sex machine for like 48 hours. Anyone have any more info like this?

 

[drewsg]

Oral sex generally makes me *** a lot faster, so if I'm in the good to give some good poundage, I'll go ahead without it.

 

[shaggy84]

when I got my wisdom teeth out I was on pain meds and I lasted a pretty long time!!! Didn't put two and two together till a couple days later.

 

[909pua]

i had this problem before and fixed it. there was this article about lengthening your penis..it involves stretching and jelqing. i did it for a week before i noticed any changes, not in length but performance suprisingly. i would do these exercises especially when im in the shower or home alone. i'm just average size but wanted to try what the article was advising. my intent was to make it look longer after a month, as the article claims, but also i noticed it helped me last longer in sex. also during sex, don't clench your kegel muscles cause if you do, you will get there faster....

i also notice that if you have a regular partner you have sex with and she lets you *** inside of her all of the time, after you ***, you keep working it till you can't feel your d1ck, as a result your tolerance goes up so next time you will also last longer.

i think a combination of this and the exercises will help you last longer. it also cures erectile problems.

 

[happypcrepair]

i last 4 hours ...i dont know how I do it. maybe just regular work out. I'm a regular work out fan.

 

[909pua]

g damn! are serious, i can't go longer than 15 minutes and at that point its already becoming uncomfortable for the girl because of my thickness!

 

[happypcrepair]

Be careful about ****in without a condom man......I was almost messed up doing that.

Does it help if you dont *** inside her?

 

[Captain]

Does it help if you dont *** inside her?

STI's are the main thing to worry about, so many men these days seem to forget about them.

Not cvmming inside her will lessen the chance of pregnancy, but it's still there.

 

[Brighty]

What are your guys' experiences with jelqing or using kegals? Any preference? Also, where are some good reliable guides for doing either?

 

[HolyTrinity]

ADDERALL! not only can u hold ur jizz u can also have sex for hours strait.