So there's a girl I will be working with a couple times a week for the next few months. I asked her out but she was reluctant to give a straight answer. A 'maybe' was her answer. Then I found out from her that she has a bf. Which later I found out to be a semi-long distance relationship in which he is gone often. She doesn't seem to excited when she talks about him though- I overheard in one of her conversations about him and seems like she won't stay with him past a few more years max. So, I figure since she's going to be around I might as well do something to attract her to me. I hear long distance relationships never work out anyway. So what can I do with this girl while she is away from her bf? She lives by herself. Anyways to steal her away? I'm open to all ideas. No negative advice though please. Thank you.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Any Tips to break a semi-Longdistance Relationship?
- Thread starter coldfire
- Start date