Abbott
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How about if you're 19.5 or 20? 22? Are you expected to just know by then?
Edit: FIVE HUNDRED POSTS!! Yeah! But I'm still not any good with women. Doggone it. Hopefully I won't still be saying this when I reach 1,000 posts.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Any tips on sex for a 25 y/o virgin
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Edit: FIVE HUNDRED POSTS!! Yeah! But I'm still not any good with women. Doggone it. Hopefully I won't still be saying this when I reach 1,000 posts.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If you're the older one, you're expected to 'just know'.
Are you saying if all you want is sex, go this route, or if you want a relationship? I feel if it's a relationship laying all your cards on the table is appropriate, I'd kinda like to know where someone that could potentially be a life mate has been.
OK a couple of tips for the first time. At one point in foreplay when you are passionately kissing her, start to "dry hump" her. Make the moves with both of you still wearing your clothes. Every time I do this it gets them hot. Also progress slowly and take your time to really enjoy the experience. Smell her and tell her she smells very nice, comfort building, do this like 5 to 10 minutes. At first it sounds kinda weird but they can get pretty crazy while your doing this 
. Just be cool, I mean there are worst things in the world then your first time in bed with a woman, think about it. And don't forget first take of your socks .
. Just be cool, I mean there are worst things in the world then your first time in bed with a woman, think about it. And don't forget first take of your socks .thefonz
Master Don Juan
Agreed, start at step 1
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I recently had a chance to, but didn't make any moves for obvious reasons. Well I don't know really, this girl I just met came over to me (when ppl were outside the apt. smoking, etc.) and started wispering in my ear and had her hand on my leg, which I figured was a green light, but I didn't make a move. Won't ever happen again, I'm just going to do it.
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My first time, my dik brushed against the bed sheets and I prematurely ejaculated.
My first time, I used the wrong brand of condoms (the kind that numb you) so i lost all feeling there (not permenantly, thank goodness), and the girl started crying because she thought she'd turned me off.
Don't let that happen to you.
Don't let that happen to you.
PurpleHaze
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bro your gonna be fine. what i suggest is to eat her out first and right when she's about to orgasm stop and start having sex with her. this is the best move u can make because ur not gonna last long the first couple of times and you don't want to leave her unsatisfied. So, when you start having sex with her she's going to orgasm quickly because she's already almost there from you eating her out. good luck to you and dont make it a big deal. the bigger you make it in ur mind the worse your gonna do. just be relaxed and confident and you'll be find. just remember all those tricks from the porn
good luck buddy
good luck buddy
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tazman, I kind of have the same insecurity you do.
There's this girl I like VERY MUCH and she's experienced while I'm a virgin. I so want to have a relationship with her, but I'm kind of afraid of how I'm going to act the first time (if we ever have sex, please God please! haha).
I understand you so much dude. But just don't plan it. Make it spontaneous.
@PurpleHaze: what do you mean by eat her out first?
Iguana
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There's this girl I like VERY MUCH and she's experienced while I'm a virgin. I so want to have a relationship with her, but I'm kind of afraid of how I'm going to act the first time (if we ever have sex, please God please! haha).
I understand you so much dude. But just don't plan it. Make it spontaneous.
@PurpleHaze: what do you mean by eat her out first?
Iguana
Peace & Metal