any tips for what to do during a movie night?

[CostaDeSol]

my brother is letting me use his house for an upcoming date i have. I asked this HB to come over for a movie night and she said yes. all i know about her is that she is a heavy drinker. I have never actually gotten laid by having a movie night so i wasn't sure how to organize it.


How would you organize this date? do you usually make a move during the movie? or do you wait till afterwards?


I personally wouldn't want to make a move during the movie because my brother has a huge tv with a home theater set up so i figured this HB would enjoy watching the entire film. so i thought maybe i should wait till after its over, but what would we do after it that could lead to a make out?

 

[In2theGame]

my brother is letting me use his house for an upcoming date i have. I asked this HB to come over for a movie night and she said yes. all i know about her is that she is a heavy drinker. I have never actually gotten laid by having a movie night so i wasn't sure how to organize it.


How would you organize this date? do you usually make a move during the movie? or do you wait till afterwards?


I personally wouldn't want to make a move during the movie because my brother has a huge tv with a home theater set up so i figured this HB would enjoy watching the entire film. so i thought maybe i should wait till after its over, but what would we do after it that could lead to a make out?

In cases like this when a HB is coming over to hang out, in your case "Movie Night", In my opinion you need to escalate as soon as possible by flirting and get her "loosened" up and making the mood comfortable. There can be different ways of doing this however it depends on who you are and your personality. Compliment her in a light sexual way and not a so called "beta" way. Instead of saying something like "hey you look nice" or "You look really pretty tonight" Say something like "Hey, glad you made it, You look really sexy" or make something slick up like "damn i wasnt expecting this haha.." She will say "huh what do you mean?" and you hit her with a smooth line like "I wasnt expecting you to look damn good tonight " Go from there.

After being playful and laid back, joke around a bit and ask her if she wants a drink or two, if shes a drinker she will probably say yes so go from there but dont get it to the point of being drunk lol. When your about to lay back and watch the movie, try gettin her to sit close to you. put your arm around her and dont hesitate to do that but remember be playful and laid back about it.

Start throwing in some comments like "what are you wearing? mmm you smell good!" even if she isnt wearing any perfume.. she most likely took a shower and has a fresh smell. From this point it all depends on the vibe your getting from her, if its a good one then proceed with comments like .. "You smell so good, your making me wanna eat you up " IF this is working.... go in for the kiss and its all you from that point. She isnt coming over for "movie night" she's coming over to get her Gina wet. Its all about how to get to that point.

 

[In2theGame]

And BTW, make sure your nice and clean and smell good with a solid cologne if you have any. The girls love a man that smells good but also a man who isnt afraid to make a move. GL

 

[NewJack]

Try to feel the sexual tension in the room.

Make one, small, casual kino gesture, when it feels right to do so for you.

Measure her reaction with your feelings aka your gut instincts.

If it is anything less than positive and responsive, nothing is going to happen.

 

[Thatfeel21]

If she agreed to come over for a "movie night" then your work is literally 80-90% done before she even walks through that door; its your 'game' to lose. As far as when to make a move? The answer to your question is somewhere toward the middle-end of the movie.

Do NOT wait until the movie is over to make your move because you will both be sitting there wondering "gee, what happens next" and no matter how much fun she's having she may pull the "its getting late, I better be getting home" line. Your fancy home theater system will be forgotten 10 mins into the movie.

Instead, focus on getting her laughing and completely open around you. Sit close, keep giving her the bedroom eyes, and put that arm around her early into the evening. She's at your house, so take control. Dont be afraid to lightly command her to do things. I do this all the time when women come over my place for the first time and it has never ever failed me. Mainly, act like she's been over before and that youve known her for years.

 

[Thatfeel21]

Oh, and what time is she coming over? If she's arriving anytime before 9 pm, then make sure you put on a longer movie just in case she's the type to take longer than usual to get her engine warmed up. If she's coming at 11 or later then, the intentions are quite clear. You shouldnt need anything more than 4 drinks, 3 smooth jokes, 2 makeout sessions and one request to take things to the bedroom before youre reporting back to us about a successful lay report!

 

[Bible_Belt]

all i know about her is that she is a heavy drinker.

I suggest Malibu Rum. It's sweet enough to drink straight with ice. Whipped Cream vodka is another female favorite, good with root beer. Svedka makes an 'orange cream pop' vodka that when mixed about 50/50 with Mountain Dew, tastes like orange Mountain Dew.

Make a very discreet effort to drink less than her, while you let her get as drunk as she wants. And for the love of God, I'm not telling you to use booze like it's a date rape drug. What I'm saying is that she drinks for a reason, and that reason is that she likes how it affects her. If you get her to the right amount of drunk, and things are going well, she will be the one raping you.

 

[CostaDeSol]

In cases like this when a HB is coming over to hang out, in your case "Movie Night", In my opinion you need to escalate as soon as possible by flirting and get her "loosened" up and making the mood comfortable. There can be different ways of doing this however it depends on who you are and your personality. Compliment her in a light sexual way and not a so called "beta" way. Instead of saying something like "hey you look nice" or "You look really pretty tonight" Say something like "Hey, glad you made it, You look really sexy" or make something slick up like "damn i wasnt expecting this haha.." She will say "huh what do you mean?" and you hit her with a smooth line like "I wasnt expecting you to look damn good tonight " Go from there.

After being playful and laid back, joke around a bit and ask her if she wants a drink or two, if shes a drinker she will probably say yes so go from there but dont get it to the point of being drunk lol. When your about to lay back and watch the movie, try gettin her to sit close to you. put your arm around her and dont hesitate to do that but remember be playful and laid back about it.

Start throwing in some comments like "what are you wearing? mmm you smell good!" even if she isnt wearing any perfume.. she most likely took a shower and has a fresh smell. From this point it all depends on the vibe your getting from her, if its a good one then proceed with comments like .. "You smell so good, your making me wanna eat you up " IF this is working.... go in for the kiss and its all you from that point. She isnt coming over for "movie night" she's coming over to get her Gina wet. Its all about how to get to that point.

And BTW, make sure your nice and clean and smell good with a solid cologne if you have any. The girls love a man that smells good but also a man who isnt afraid to make a move. GL

thanks for the tips, these are all things that i need to do more. I do have issues with getting too drunk so i will have to watch myself and be careful with that.

 

[CostaDeSol]

all i know about her is that she is a heavy drinker.

I suggest Malibu Rum. It's sweet enough to drink straight with ice. Whipped Cream vodka is another female favorite, good with root beer. Svedka makes an 'orange cream pop' vodka that when mixed about 50/50 with Mountain Dew, tastes like orange Mountain Dew.

Make a very discreet effort to drink less than her, while you let her get as drunk as she wants. And for the love of God, I'm not telling you to use booze like it's a date rape drug. What I'm saying is that she drinks for a reason, and that reason is that she likes how it affects her. If you get her to the right amount of drunk, and things are going well, she will be the one raping you.

I use to use malibu rum, but i never had any luck with the hb's i drank it with, though that was probably MY fault.

so this time around i will be using plain rum, and then mix it with a fruit juice.

 

[CostaDeSol]

Try to feel the sexual tension in the room.

Make one, small, casual kino gesture, when it feels right to do so for you.

Measure her reaction with your feelings aka your gut instincts.

If it is anything less than positive and responsive, nothing is going to happen.

thanks, i'm not use to using kino on new girls like this, but i will see what i can do.

 

[CostaDeSol]

If she agreed to come over for a "movie night" then your work is literally 80-90% done before she even walks through that door; its your 'game' to lose. As far as when to make a move? The answer to your question is somewhere toward the middle-end of the movie.

Do NOT wait until the movie is over to make your move because you will both be sitting there wondering "gee, what happens next" and no matter how much fun she's having she may pull the "its getting late, I better be getting home" line. Your fancy home theater system will be forgotten 10 mins into the movie.

Instead, focus on getting her laughing and completely open around you. Sit close, keep giving her the bedroom eyes, and put that arm around her early into the evening. She's at your house, so take control. Dont be afraid to lightly command her to do things. I do this all the time when women come over my place for the first time and it has never ever failed me. Mainly, act like she's been over before and that youve known her for years.

Oh, and what time is she coming over? If she's arriving anytime before 9 pm, then make sure you put on a longer movie just in case she's the type to take longer than usual to get her engine warmed up. If she's coming at 11 or later then, the intentions are quite clear.

thanks for all these tips. we haven't decided on a time yet, but probably around 7-8pm.

You shouldnt need anything more than 4 drinks, 3 smooth jokes, 2 makeout sessions and one request to take things to the bedroom before youre reporting back to us about a successful lay report!

thank you for your positivity!

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Doubt she'll be taking tequila shots for movie night but if she does Chicks always like vodka, it's a fail safe. That and a mixer, something tooty fruity like cranberry juice, just "happen" to have that in the back of your fridge.

Not sure how your place is set up, but ambiance is key. Nice and comfortable, have a blanket ready. Do you have a place to put your feet up? If it's just a coffee table then have a second blanket ready to put over it to rest your feet on. The key: comfortable and relaxed. Also, have a few candles around the house, and have one lit up on the coffee table. Trust me here, if you want, light it right in front of them and do it as if it's just part of the deal, they'll like it....it's your place, you set the mood.

Not a big fan of talking sexual right off the bat, unless you two have a little history of it, or have some banter going on. Make her feel comfortable...in all aspects. I just say keep it light, don't try too hard too soon, she's there to watch a movie....even though you both know otherwise. So, be interested in the movie, and what's going to happen. Then, let it flow. If she doesn't initiate any kino in the beginning, grab her hand and hold it. That's a start.

Usually I make sure to make myself comfortable (feet up), relaxed. Grab her hand, then let her get close to me.....then go from there. I don't try to force anything too early. Sometimes she'll move in and initiate, if not, I'll start playing with her hair (while looking ahead at the movie), then move on to rubbing her neck...and so on. It should be a natural progression..

The tension should build....and that's it....take it from there.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I personally wouldn't want to make a move during the movie because my brother has a huge tv with a home theater set up so i figured this HB would enjoy watching the entire film. so i thought maybe i should wait till after its over, but what would we do after it that could lead to a make out?

WTF are you talking about??? You seem to be more concerned about her enjoying the movie on your brother's "home theatre set up" than about getting laid. Really, who give a f*ck about that? The movie is just an excuse (she knows that as well as you do). If you sit next to her through the whole movie without making a move it will be weird and she will probably think that something is wrong. This a typical example of a guy shooting himself in the foot by trying to overanalyze the situation.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

I'm going to give you an important insight I learned a loooooong time ago, and it's one of the few things I learned from women that actually proved to be helpful:

EVERY GIRL KNOWS THAT "MOVIE NIGHT AT THE APARTMENT" IS CODE FOR SEX.

Anytime a woman gets an invite from a guy where he says "Hey, come over to my place for dinner and a movie," they know it's code for sex, albeit indirectly. However, women are great at hearing this indirect speak and knowing what it really means. Why is this important to realize?

BECAUSE IF A WOMAN SAYS "YES" TO YOUR INVITATION, IT MEANS SHE'S ALREADY SAYING "YES" TO THE IDEA OF HAVING SEX WITH YOU.

All you have to do is (a) set the right mood, and (b) pick the right movie.

(a) Set the right mood: cook a good-smelling meal, and make sure you have something with chocolate, like baked brownies, chocolate chip cookies or some chocolate candy. Why? It's an aphrodisiac that will make her horny. Also, keep the lights dim - in dark light the eyes' pupils dilate, which makes a person look more attractive.

(b) Pick the right movie: most guys think you need to be watching some kind of romance movie to get her in the mood. NOT CORRECT. These movies just make them think about what they currently don't have, and because they'll end up being so involved in the story they may end up forgetting about you altogether.

The best results I've gotten on these home movie dates were ones where I was watching either a comedy or an action movie. Real talk, I took a girl down while watching World War Z on my desktop computer; another time, it was during the movie "Gangster Squad." You want to find a movie that will either get her laughing so she'll feel happy, or a movie that she'll only be half-interested in watching - in both cases, these things will allow you to transition into sex much easier.

Speaking of transitioning: you don't want to just go for the sex right away. Everything should be transitional movements that lead you into sex. For example: at the start of the movie you may be sitting on the couch eating popcorn or something, but you don't cuddle up just yet. You watch the movie for about 10 minutes then get up to get you and her something to drink. You sit back down, take some sips from the drink, then place your glass down and move your arm back until you have it around her. Now you're cuddled up. A few minutes later, you say something to her while leaning into her ear. Then you lean back. A few minutes later, you comment on a fragrant smell (hopefully her perfume) and smell her neck. The act of smelling is very arousing to a woman - get your nose just close enough to her neck to lightly touch it, then tell her it smells good... then lean back. A few minutes later you get back up, and go to the bathroom or something, then come back and put your arms back around her.

A few minutes later, turn and look at her.. but don't say anything. Look at her for a few seconds until she looks at you, then turn away. She'll probably ask "What, what is it?" You say "eh, nothing." She'll probably go "no, what is it" jokingly? Then say something like "eh, nothing - just thinking about much I'm enjoying this evening so far." Her: "Oh really?" Then you go "yeah... I mean, this movie is fan-tastic! Oh, and the company's not bad either " She'll probably playfully hit you or say something like "whatever, you're crazy!" in a playful way. Start playfully tickling her back or hitting her with a pillow in a flirtly way... and at that point, I'm usually starting to kiss them, first on her neck, then I move to their mouth and... well, you get the idea.

But yea... remember, she already said yes to coming over for a "movie," so don't think doesn't know what should be going down. Hope this helps!

 

[CostaDeSol]

This a typical example of a guy shooting himself in the foot by trying to overanalyze the situation.

yeah, i can see this. like i said, i'm still new to these types of setups so i wasn't expecting to be perfect in the way i planned everything out

 

[CostaDeSol]

I'm going to give you an important insight I learned a loooooong time ago, and it's one of the few things I learned from women that actually proved to be helpful:

EVERY GIRL KNOWS THAT "MOVIE NIGHT AT THE APARTMENT" IS CODE FOR SEX.

Anytime a woman gets an invite from a guy where he says "Hey, come over to my place for dinner and a movie," they know it's code for sex, albeit indirectly. However, women are great at hearing this indirect speak and knowing what it really means. Why is this important to realize?

BECAUSE IF A WOMAN SAYS "YES" TO YOUR INVITATION, IT MEANS SHE'S ALREADY SAYING "YES" TO THE IDEA OF HAVING SEX WITH YOU.

All you have to do is (a) set the right mood, and (b) pick the right movie.

(a) Set the right mood: cook a good-smelling meal, and make sure you have something with chocolate, like baked brownies, chocolate chip cookies or some chocolate candy. Why? It's an aphrodisiac that will make her horny. Also, keep the lights dim - in dark light the eyes' pupils dilate, which makes a person look more attractive.

(b) Pick the right movie: most guys think you need to be watching some kind of romance movie to get her in the mood. NOT CORRECT. These movies just make them think about what they currently don't have, and because they'll end up being so involved in the story they may end up forgetting about you altogether.

The best results I've gotten on these home movie dates were ones where I was watching either a comedy or an action movie. Real talk, I took a girl down while watching World War Z on my desktop computer; another time, it was during the movie "Gangster Squad." You want to find a movie that will either get her laughing so she'll feel happy, or a movie that she'll only be half-interested in watching - in both cases, these things will allow you to transition into sex much easier.

Speaking of transitioning: you don't want to just go for the sex right away. Everything should be transitional movements that lead you into sex. For example: at the start of the movie you may be sitting on the couch eating popcorn or something, but you don't cuddle up just yet. You watch the movie for about 10 minutes then get up to get you and her something to drink. You sit back down, take some sips from the drink, then place your glass down and move your arm back until you have it around her. Now you're cuddled up. A few minutes later, you say something to her while leaning into her ear. Then you lean back. A few minutes later, you comment on a fragrant smell (hopefully her perfume) and smell her neck. The act of smelling is very arousing to a woman - get your nose just close enough to her neck to lightly touch it, then tell her it smells good... then lean back. A few minutes later you get back up, and go to the bathroom or something, then come back and put your arms back around her.

A few minutes later, turn and look at her.. but don't say anything. Look at her for a few seconds until she looks at you, then turn away. She'll probably ask "What, what is it?" You say "eh, nothing." She'll probably go "no, what is it" jokingly? Then say something like "eh, nothing - just thinking about much I'm enjoying this evening so far." Her: "Oh really?" Then you go "yeah... I mean, this movie is fan-tastic! Oh, and the company's not bad either " She'll probably playfully hit you or say something like "whatever, you're crazy!" in a playful way. Start playfully tickling her back or hitting her with a pillow in a flirtly way... and at that point, I'm usually starting to kiss them, first on her neck, then I move to their mouth and... well, you get the idea.

But yea... remember, she already said yes to coming over for a "movie," so don't think doesn't know what should be going down. Hope this helps!

your post was helpful, i think i just needed to realize that this girl has probably already agreed to sleep with me so all thats left is for me to make the right moves

 

[abe0]

Harry Wilmington got this one right. I usually have a bottle of wine open by the time she arrives...and have her help me cook. Women love it when men cook for them...also fun if they help..they always want to help.
Set mood....music, candles, nice ambiance......
Select the right movie ....more drinks ....and start your move within half hour....I doubt you will finish watching the movie.
Best, Abe

 

[Stort_Brød]

ok guys while we are on the subject of movies....

I know that if you play your cards right you will only see the first half hour of the movie but what movies do you all put on? as in do you have a default movie for this or what? as I just download whatever is new in the cinemas.

 

[LiveFreeX]

all i know about her is that she is a heavy drinker.

I swear, after reading through that HERPES thread, I thought..... man there is not anything lower... then I find you.

WHY would you want to sex a woman that is a heavy drinker.... that is a HUGE red flag right in your face...


All I know about her is that she is a heavy drinker??? THAT'S ALL YOU KNOW??? And she agreed to movie night? Well no sh1t, its cause she's a slut.
Why do PUA's settle for sluts... my god, use your powers and knowledge to date QUALITY women. Some of you guys.... you are bottom of the barrel guys. Single Moms, STDs, Heavy Drinkers. LOLz

What if she gets pregnant, then you are stuck with an alcoholic that will likely beat the sh1t out of your kids and treat you like crap and cheat on you. This is what you are getting into.

Women love it when men cook for them...also fun if they help..they always want to help.

Are you fvcking kidding me... my wife and I are both laughing at you. Also fun if they help? What are women, children or stupid animals? If a grown up WOMAN wants to impress you and take care of you, she will cook FOR YOU, that is her PLACE. You are so comically retarded.... ugh western men are fcking retards.

Tell that b1tch, movie night you are going to sit down and watch your favorite movie: Battlestar Galactica (the old one, its boring for women) and she is going to prove that she is a woman and cook up some desserts and a 4 course meal, you will buy the food, she cooks it. Then if she does a good job, you can fvck her later as a reward. That is a good movie night. If she balks in any way, then she is just looking for some retard like you, to leech off of. Are you a man or a mangina?

You guys are so desperate for pvssy..... this thread is so full of FAIL, I want to puke. You are the reason that Western Women treat men like dogs and think they can act like spoiled princesses. You are encouraging slutty behavior in women and rewarding them with pro-creation.

So many stupid men, so little time.

 

[CostaDeSol]

ok guys while we are on the subject of movies....

I know that if you play your cards right you will only see the first half hour of the movie but what movies do you all put on? as in do you have a default movie for this or what? as I just download whatever is new in the cinemas.

from what i've learned from watching movies with my friends, anything that is fun, such as action movies or comedies are the best. no serious dramas, romances, suspense films, etc.

you want to put something on that she won't take seriously.

i don't have a default film because i usually just end up picking something that has just come out the past couple years.